baby shower question
I am only ten weeks so I know it is early to be thinking about this, but I am a type a planner and can't help it. My grandma wants to throw me a shower three hours from where I live because I have I've 20+ family members down there so I agree. The only worry I have is it is really hard for my friends up here and the father's family to go there. The father's family lives four hours north of me, which makes it seven hours from my grandma. I have many friends here but none that are real close. I am worried no one will offer to throw one here where I live. In that case do I just invite the friends and father's family down to my grandma's? I wouldn't feel right asking a friend to do one here because I am not super close to any of them. What should I do?
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I wouldn't ask anyone to throw you one, my best friend at the time begged me to throw one for her second pregnancy, because she didn't get one for her first. She was so demanding about what she wanted, I spent way more than I was comfortable and then she was so unappreciative of any of it, we don't even talk anymore.
And for the record, baby showers are NOT fun LOL. Few ppl are excited when invited to a shower. My own shower was the worst part of pregnancy...and I spent it on bed rest! I was like "ok ppl, PLEASE go home now!"