sad and emotional already! :(

MommaKeeshMommaKeesh
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
So this whole pregnancy so far I have not been feeling "in the mood" for sex. I am starting to feel better and this morning I woke up feeling in the mood :)... my hubby always told me he would love it if I woke up and started at it and woke him up that way. So this a.m. since I was feeling better I thought id suprise him. Well..... he pushed me away :( broke my heart and made me feel very very unwanted! :( Now today is our ONLY day off together so I told him id like to spend the day with him. He said that sounded great, but now its 10 o clock and he is still sleeping, I asked him if he wanted to go get breakfast and he's still laying there. So now I get to spend my morning alone AGAIN :(, come to find out he's going to gym with a bud at 4 so now by the time he wakes up and get going for the day ill only have a couple hours to spend with him. :( when we are together he's always texting his buds and spending no time with me anyways.... am I asking for too much???

Comments

  • NatalieNatalie
    No your not asking to much!!!
  • cinnaboncinnabon
    No!!! I'm getting mad just reading this! Wake him up!! You have every right to be upset and hurt. I get infuriated when my husband sleeps the day away when we are supposed to be together. Then he wanna get up and go to the gym??? No no no!! The gym can wait. He needs to spend the day with you. It's ur only day off! I have no advice for u, but I feel ur pain and if I was there I'd help u beat him with a pillow until he got up!!
  • mommyto1soontob2mommyto1soontob2
    Awww I know how u feel. My bd always occupies his time not with me but begs for sex and attention so now I got my sex drive back I won't give it to him cause he ignores me. So when he wants to spend time together then I will consider sex lol. But I'd tell ur hubby how u feel.
  • marriedwith_4marriedwith_4
    To me NO, to him YES! I go thru the same thing with my hubby but he's always n his man cave playing his video game.
  • cinnaboncinnabon
    I mentioned in another post how I was mad at him for sleeping so I painted his toenails, put makeup on him, and put barrettes in his hair. THEN I took pictures. he got the point and I got a massage and a bunch of "sorrys." And it gave me something to do with my loneliness :)
  • mommyto1soontob2mommyto1soontob2
    @cinnabon ur nuts bahah. I was thinkin of hiding bd phone and starring at him till he woke up one day and as o had the phone in my hand it was above his ear n rang haha karma
  • MommaKeeshMommaKeesh
    Lol!!!! You girls have great ideas, I just lay here quiet, don't ever think of doing stuff like that! I have tried to talk to him, actually just a couple nights ago I cried for hours bc of it. And then we talked, I moved all the way across the country to start our lives together and left my family and all. He is ALL that I have here and it kills that I don't have his emotional or physical support. All I want is my time with him, and I can't even get that :( he is too occupied with other things. I'm not sure what the issue is, I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but he keeps pushing me further and further away :( all I wanna do is cry and go back home to my mama and dad. :(
  • cinnaboncinnabon
    AND u moved across country to be with him?? Completely unacceptable! Unfortunately, he probably doesn't even see the flaw. Idk if tears help, but have u tried the dramatic approach? Crying your eyes out while packing ur bags and on the phone with Southwest Airlines? Just a thought. My guess is he has no idea how upset u are and needs a wake-up call.

    @mommyto1soontobe2 thank u. I get that often. Hehe
  • MommaKeeshMommaKeesh
    Tears help for like a day, but I think if things don't change than the dramatic approach is next
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