soo husband wants me to get bigger!

podgemarinepodgemarine
edited April 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
I guess you would call me a whooty, I am a white girl with a ghetto booty. My husband loves it and I think that is great but after our child is born I want to go back to my normal exercizing and dieting which I would still keep a booty, but he wants me to gain more weight! he says he wants it bigger?? Annd as much as I love him and love pleasing him..it would kill my self esteem. Soo should I satisfy my husbands wants and desires or satisfy mine?? (Obviously not worried til after our precious baby is born! )

Comments

  • beaded_bunnybeaded_bunny
    If you had the booty of his dreams you would feel horrible about yourself and you would no longer have the personality that he loves. Be true to yourself and what you need to do or your just going to resent him
  • jbandno3jbandno3
    Honestly, when I don't feel good about myself it affects our relationship. So u think that feeling good about yourself especially after giving birth and becoming a mommy is very important.
  • PebblesMommyPebblesMommy
    I say do what's healthy. If you can manage to eat healthy and exercise and still have your whooty (haha) then go for it. But I don't think you should risk your health just for the sake of his little fettish.
  • blessed1508blessed1508
    my bf loves my thickness now and told me to stay this way after the baby. ha I laughed at him. I am going back to my old body. this thickness is not for me... do what makes u comfortable!!
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    Thank you ladies. I definitely will be hitting up the gym after then.. he will still love me but I will love me and I think that's kinda important :)
  • kenziesmom216kenziesmom216
    my boyfriend said he dont care how I look tiny and thin with a whooty lol or thick with a whooty either way hes happy and is satisfied . makes me feel good . but I say do what you feel is best for you . if your not happy then the relationship is no good .
  • heatherlynnheatherlynn
    My boyfriend is on me about gaining more weight too..when I have gained plenty. its not cuz he wants a specific part of me bigger or anything, but he says I'm not feeding his baby....I'm like "I don't need to be stuffed 24-7"..
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    @heatherlynn how far along are you?
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I'm a white girl with a ghetto butt too. Guys looooove it ;) Even when I get kinda skinny (I'm thick too so I'll never be a size 0) my booty stays.
  • NaliiBByNaliiBBy
    Mee tooo :) mii bf who's black loves mii.bootyy!! :) I'm hella thick for a while grl lol.. Prob y I only.date black guys :) I would like to lose summ weight mostly in mii arms n belly of course after bby butt not mii thighs n bootyy :))) all mii friends call me whootyy that's funny :) I love mi body!
  • heatherlynnheatherlynn
    @podgemarine I'm 30wks :) u?
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    my gf butt is definitely bigger n I love it. so r her boobs. n im lovin them too. if she stays a lil thick after the baht im lovin the butt. if she gots back to where she was b4 she still gonna have the boobs. so im happy. I deff lucked out when I met her (:
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    @victoriab I'm only 5'2" and have thick genetics as well, the best I ever looked was when I was a size 2 in woman clothes..I still had d cups and still had a booty soon I don't know what my husband has a problem me being like that again lol

    @naliibby I know what you mean I married a white Guy but black men love my butt cuz they always stare.. and I just want to lose arm and tummy and tone my legs. :)

    @heatherlynn I'm 18 weeks. My husband tried telling me at 5 weeks I was starving the baby cuz I ate normal meals... haha I love bd that care cause they get almost as emotional (sympathy symptoms ) :D

    @firsttimedaddy how far along is your gf? Glad you can support her with the weight gain..we tend to get emotional bout it lol
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    she is gonna b 18 weeks tomorrow (: I couldnt keep my hands off her b4 he hence the pregnancy lol n I can't keep muy hands off her now (: (:
  • BayouMammaBayouMamma
    Lol you guys are funny...im a white girl with a booty...so much so that i always get told that from the side, my butt sticks out more than my belly
    Im 23 weeks.
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    For me im completely insecure about my weight was anorexic in hs finally got down to my target weight of 120 this summer did it healthily and got prego have since gain about 40 pounds my bf always tells me he didn't fall for my body he fwll for my heart but I hope to get down to at least 130 if I cant make my 120 goal
  • NaliiBByNaliiBBy
    @podgemarina see there's nothing wrong with that :)) juss dnt runn ur booty off :)
  • kritten_octoberbbykritten_octoberbby
    I think you do what you want. Your the one who has to feel comfortable with yourself..tough sh** hell get over it
  • Daddy_of_four23Daddy_of_four23
    Compromise with him don't just say he will get over it. Have a big prego booty and then bring your body back to your level of comfort. Ultimately you have to be happy cause if mama not happy no one is happy lol. I love my wife's prego body but I also know how important her self esteem is.
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    @firsttimedaddy congrats on the pregnancy! I'm sure she'll keep tthat curvey figure u love after baby is born :)

    @bayoumamma lol I love that!we'll be expecting pics on here when your 35 weeks and that's still true ;) haha

    @rissale7 sorry to hear about the anorexia.. I can't say I've been there cause I've always worked out like 3 times a day..so I guess I can say I'm happy to hear you are doing it right these days tho! Your body will thank u for it ;) my goal is 135 cause that's usual my comfort zone so good luck to u on yours, I'm sure you can do it!

    @naliibby I def won't..that would take a miracle worker!! Haha

    @kritten_octoberbby your right he'll get over it because he will see how much happier I am and i sure hope he'd rather me be happy! Ha

    @daddy_of_four23 ill try my best to compromise with him..I don't know if you believe in zodiacs but he is definitely a leo..and sometimes there are no compromises with him (only when he is being stubborn tho ha) ill just have to catch him in that good mood eh?? Lol
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    lol thanx. good luck w ur whooty (:
  • Maranda3Maranda3
    LOL all I can think about is my jealousy! I suffer from noassatall syndrome, also called all belly no butt disease. My hubby has my dream derriere though, so I just pray our kids inherit thay trait from daddy!
    Back on topic, I think you should do what makes YOU feel best. Can't love to make everyone else happy, even your man. Good luck to you love!
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    Hey @maranda3 at least they prob make jeans that fit you!! I have the hardest time !! Ha I think you are right. I tend to be a people pleaser and ignore my own happiness ... must work on that :)

    @firsttimedaddy lol my whooty needs luck I love it haha!
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    lmfao @Maranda3
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