i miss liking sex :-(

1stimemomma

Okay so when I was in my first trimester, I couldn't get enough. I was sex crazy :-) but now I'm 25 weeks and even when I want to have sex, its just not good. I want to have sex, but the sensation just isn't the same. I figure its because of the pregnancy and really hope it gets better soon. Any suggestions??

Proudmomma

I'm the same way and I only have 4 wks left.

1stimemomma

Well at least I'm not the only one :-) thanks

lilmomma070811

I feel the same way..hope its not tmi but i use a bullet to help take my mind off the penetration.i cant stand the feeling of just penetration..and her kicking and moving during sex really doesnt help any lol

1stimemomma

Lol well at least you found something that works for you. I think more touching there would irritate me...has anyone used ky? Does it help?

Chels

We use ky silk its pretty nice but since i got pregnant all he does is bitch because im ALWAYS too wet

lilmomma070811

I hate being touched down there! Hes not allowed to touch it at all i can barely stand him "going in" ughhh it bothers me so bad but the vibrations help take the feeling from the "gross..get the f off me" to a more pleasurable level..he hates that i use it everytime we have sex but if he wants sex im not gona lay there and take it!! I have tried and i just jump off the bed.i have the urge to hit him and everything bc it just feels so nasty to me.

mandiixmayhem

I've been completely turned off from sex since the end of my first trimester. I feel so bad for the hubby. we went from multiple times everyday to nothing. I hope everything goes back to normal after this pregnancy!!!

Happy2BPreggo

@lilmomma070811 I feel EXACTLY the same way, but I'm only in my 14th week and have felt this way since the beginning. Ugh ;(

pregnantlettemama

I agree, i have sex with my bd, but it jus dont feel right... I dont even want him to touch me!

newmommyofone

Why do we feel like this when were pregnant? It ends up hurting me but I hate leaving him with nothing. I get sad cuz sometimes I feel like I can't satisfy him anymore. He is so good tho. He makes me feel so beautiful and then when he sleeps with his shirt off and jus holds me I can feel his abs and makes me wantg him so bad til I'm begging. Lol . Tmi but its all that works.

lilmomma070811

All the books say that you want it more when your pregnant bc of the extra blood flow..but i think that info is over rated bc i hardly know any preggos that crave sex throughout pregnancy.i find it disgjsting and i have with all 3 pregnancies..i feel bad bc my hubby thinks i loved sex with my other pregnancies i just never told him how bad i hated it and always just gave it to him to make him happy and keep him from going out,just bc i was insecure back then now im like please go get it somewhere else lol thats how i feel but id def. Kill him if it ever crossed his mind lmao...i swear we went like 2months wthout and i gave it to him twice,and now he wont stay off me!!like earlier he kept trying to get it and i had to yell at him bc i really didnt want it!!

1stimemomma

Thanks so much you guys now I feel better :-) its not just me