any one due in october n goin thru this with out a man?

jebikaslittle1

Hate the thought of doin this alone its not fair to my lil beebee. I mean don't get me wrong but the dude who helped in getting me pregnant is saying he can't have kids... so I've chose not to talk to him... am thinking bout adoption. But I should have enough support from my family an friends that I should be ok to be a single mom... but I really don't know wtf I'm doing... an I hate doin this alone. Even though every one is here for me I'm still feeling like I'm doin this alone any one on the same boat as me maybe?

black_butterfly

Your not alone Im due oct 22nd with baby number 3 and my childrens father doesnt want the baby so Im keep looking at it like we will be fine without you and maybe he will come around but cant focus on that now just Mt bundle of joy

jebikaslittle1

I'm due oct. 8th.. all my friends are friends wit the dude who got me pregnant they all grew up together. They keep tellin me he is a puke an blah blah (mind u all my friends are guys) I just don't get it.. I'm depressed an I feel like crap all the time. I'm worried bout takin any pills to help wit this cuz I don't want my kid to come out wit problems... which is lame I think I want to give it up but I'll prolly keep it I already started the baby room!

black_butterfly

You dont to do anything to hurt yourself or the baby, your friends are just trying to help but at the end of your day you have to decide what you want but make that decision yourself not based on what others tell you, try to enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can with everything going on.

jebikaslittle1

I'm trying to... so far it isn't too bad I don't get sick a lot I can eat all my normal foods I think its a girl... but I won't find out till next month I hope. Thanks for listening to me off load.

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Good luck to you all.

Chelcie89

I'm due October 4th and have my babys father in my life as of now but idk how long it will last he was in denial last time I got pregnant in 08 and I miscarried and he keeps denying this baby and his excuse is because he only has one nut so he claims he didn't think he could get me pregnant but obviously he can this is the second time now and he said he wants to do a dna test when the baby is born I told him to go ahead but he will feel stupid when he spends that money and they say its his and he will be put on child support afterwards cause he obviosly doesn't trust me even tho he has no reason not to we have been together almost 4 years and are always together unless he's gone