I jus wanna pour my heart out to someone who listens

Phoenix_Bennu

I've had a miscarriage on the 11th of march,i was 12 weeks. Its been really difficult for me to handle and on top of it all my boyfriend has been distant from me. He doesn't come see me or even talk to me. He says we need time apart tho we still are together. Lately I have been sensitive and insure it's jus my emotions. I love him dearly I jus don't kno wat to do. A simple conversation with him I get on his nerves.and that I don't do. Yesterday he told me that we need to chill out on texting n calling but we barely even do that. I think he wants to end the relationship nd don't wanna hurt my feelings but he is doing that already. When I love I love hard and I'm faithful. On top of everything we still have unprotected sex since everything happened nd I think I could be pregnant again. I jus need to talk out my problems but no one understand me.

Landynplus1momma

Im here if u want to talk u can always inbox me or leave a message or talk here im a good listener n ill give u the best advise I can!

Phoenix_Bennu

Thank so much I really appreciate that

madilynn37

whatever and whenever i'm here as well. i don't know if i give the greatest advice but i am a good listener. have u taking a pregnancy test yet?

jalem

maybe hes torn up about the m/c my ex and i didnt really talk for a month because both of us were so hurt and seeing eachother hurt us more because of the what if's you know...

Phoenix_Bennu

@jalem yea I understand that he's hurt and I'm trying to give him space. He's not the type to talk about his feelings. He's says we r still together and he needs time to get over it, he doesn't know wat to do. All I was asking from him is where do we stand in the relationship. But since he said that we are ok I'll believe it. I jus feel shut out.

@Madiilynn thank u

jalem

yeah i know how that goes... with both of my miscarriages i couldnt go home(stayed at a friends house) couldnt talk to my ex, seeing him made me cry so badly, and he was the same way... but when he would say things like i cant see you, or , we need some time apart... it was like i just lost both of the things that i held so dear... and i was just torn into pieces because of it... but if he's telling you that yall are still together then trust him... and remember he lost that baby too...

Phoenix_Bennu

Yea I'm starting too a lil bit. Most dats I'm able to cope then I jus break down. I jus don't wanna life him ya kno. I kno its not all about me