hey!! im new and need friends for moral support. (long!!!)
my name is ariana, im 15 years old from the big island hawaii and my due date is nov 2... i am scared about this whole pregnancy thing... i dont know what to do... my parents know and are in the process of charging my bf with stat. rape charges and already has a restraining order on him!!! i want the baby because it is a part of me and him but i cant do this alone... and my parents arent any help all they do is yell at me that i f***ed up and that i better find out a way to make this right... but they wont let me get an abortion even if i wanted to they said i made my bed and now im gonna lay in it... but i refuse to give my baby up for adoption i wont carry him/her for 9 months just to give it up... the thing is i know i fucked up... we were usually so careful but i got drunk at the beach with my friends and well we slipped.. i dont want my baby thinking that it is a mistake...
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I'm sorry your parents are keeping your boyfriend from you and his child. If it was consentual and you guys care about each other (I'm guessing you do because you say he's your boyfriend right?) Then it isn't wrong and he doesn't deserve that.
@wallieheadbaby3 thank you!!! i hope i can make it through this... but i have been crying for the past 3 days because i cant see my bf and my parents look at me with disgust...
@isaiahnjocelynsmommy im gong to try to explain that to them but i dont know if he knows of what his reaction was when he found out... my mom called the cops when we got home my dad showed up his sergent took the report and when my dad came home he said that the restraining order went through and i cant contact him
I guess there's nothing you can do about your boyfriend and that really sucks but hopefully things will get better as time goes on. You sure will have a ton of support from the chicks on here if you need it.(:
@wallieheadbaby3 thank you for caring!!! and i will...
@simone i know im trying to think as much as possible!!! its hard tho...