SIBLINGS!!! :/

mixd_mommy

Ok. Im 13w & 4d. I hav a 20 month old son. He is my pride & joy & he knows it. His father is not in his life tho my bf who ive been w l a lil ova a yr plays a big role as a father figure to him. He loves him & my son adores him. (my bf is da father of dis bby) my mom spoils my son rotten. Lol. I small family..me, my mom, my aunt, & my great gma so dats all my son knows. My son & dis bby will b 2yrs & 1month apart. Ppl told me its gud to hav dem close in age. Iam an only child & wuz bored alot in my younger yrs so i dnt want my son to b dat way. Any hoo, iam very nervous about how my son will act when da new bby arrives. Iam scared he will feel like i dnt love him anymore..& im afraid i will love him more den da bby bcus he is my first! I NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO INCLUDE HIM IN ON THINGS W l DA NEW BBY & HOW TO HELP HIM GET ADJUSTED. ANYTHING YU LADIES THINK WILL HELP..PLEAZ LET ME KNO!!! THANX!!

KayleighAnn

Let him help decorate the nursery or have him read stories to your belly

Rissalee7

My bf has a son from a previous relationship thats three we told him about the baby as soon as the first trimester ended also got books to read to him about being a big brother and gave him his own us photo let him listen to the heart beat on our at home listening device

mixd_mommy

Thanx ladies. Do yu guys think he will b jealous? How will he act when da bby comes home? Im afraid hes gona feel left out bcus i kno da new bby is gona take alot of my time. My son goes to daycare most of da day...how do yu adjust w l two?

mixd_mommy

Also..my son is on a gud schedule..be comes home from daycare by 5:30..plays..eats dinner..takes a bath..plays a lil more den is in bed by 8:30-9. Do yu guys think his schedule should still b maintained w l da bby or will it b interfered?

Rissalee7

I laughed at my bfs son because when we were talking about the baby he asked if the baby could sleep in his room

betty

My daughter told me today, she was sad.cuz i was gonna pay more attention to baby when she arrived and forget her and brother... uggghhh i knew one day she would get jealous

mixd_mommy

@Rissalee too cute! Lol @betty dats wat im afraid ofl.

betty

I told her they were older and baby couldnt feed herself and that she would help me feed and change her.... i said.you cannot.compare yourself with baby sis... she was better