Is it just Hormones or am I in the right?

mumof3

So my husband runs the kitchen at a popular pub in our town. He always stays to check out sports highlights, have one beer and unwind after work. Last night he gets home and tells me that a girl asked him if she could buy him a drink - which he accepted. Apparently he then just ignored her and talked with his friend (who is the bartender). She still asked him if he wanted another drink to which he said he was just going home. Am I wrong for feeling that he should have said no in the first place? He sees it as a free drink but I see it as playing hard to get. I asked how he would have felt if a guy bought me a drink and he brushed it off...Sorry I needed to vent to someone Haha

kenziesmom216

no i think he souldve said no in the first place . id be pretty pissed if some chick bought my boyfriend a drink .

Beautiful_Altar

He should have said no thanks

mumof3

And that's how i feel and i want to tell him that it really bugged me (which i said last night but want to say it again!) but I also don't want to keep bringing it up....uggg men!

Laurenmarie729I

I agree...definetly should have declined the drink, accepting it leads the girl on that he may be available or willing to be available. However I do know a time I was at bar with a few girls and a guy from across the bar bought us each a drink with out asking just told the bartender, I wasnt guna push it away so we just said thanks across the bar and that was it! He probably expected us to go over to him haha but nooope. So its a hard.situation to be in, at least he told you about it though!

Rissalee7

ya id be super pissed if some chick bought my man a drink but id let it go if i was there which has happened but if he was by himself he better say no or ill kick his ass and hers.

ashes

I wouldn't think too far into it. He said no and went home after the one drink. Sometimes refusing a drink can be seen as rude... imo I would blow it off as how he did, a free drink is a free drink. He did nothing wrong. But idk that's only my opinion, some people think differently

iluvmykids

I personally think he should have said "no thanks" carried on with what he was doing, then came home.. Him telling you about it is a good thing in a way, but us prego women are sometimes feeling insecure because are hormones are whacked!! So him telling you probably didn't make you feel that good at all!! I would kinda let it go, but explain that if it happens again you would appreciate if he said no ..