baby daddy problems...

jalem

my baby daddy is all into my pregnancy but when it comes to me he doesnt really pay attention to me not physically or emotionally... i've recently started to have to beg for sex and my hormones are crazy right now... we haven't been physical in over 2 weeks when we used to at least 3 or 4 times a week... and when im sad or mad or all the other things that come with pregnancy he kinda just ignores me... he's taken to playing videogames all hours of the day right up until bed time... i'm starting to think that he doesn't love me anymore but when i ask or talk to him about it he says im hormonal and dont know what im talking about... is anyone else in this situation because im starting to feel unloved and ugly and like i want to hurt my self because thats how much it hurts me and at least then id have a reason for the pain...

Neek

Well I don't have that same problem but I but I tell my bf that I don't feel loved and he says its just my hormones as well , so maybe we just can't tell jus worry about your baby and try to make light if the situation we are not the easiest people to be around right now one day you'll prolly lok back at this and laugh

heatherlynn

He may be scared to have sex...have u let him know that its perfectly safe? Try reassuring him...and hey it might be hormonal..I hate when my bf pulls the "hormonal"card..but we do have raging ones at this time. I don't think a lot of men know how to deal with this...we need attention and love and when we don't get it..we end up feeling like this..happens to me more than once a week

Bethaney74

If you think you want to.hurt yourself you need to call your doctor immediately. This is very serious. Please don't hurt yourself. It's not worth it

jalem

@heatherlynn i have talked to him about that and he was fine with it at first... its only recently that he just stopped... his actual words were i need a vacation from having sex... not that he doesn't jack it any less just no sex...
@bethaney74 i have called my doctor and my psychiatrist they both know about my past episodes as a teen with self mutilation and are monitoring me... i havent hurt myself in 3 years and wont hurt myself its just the way that i feel recently like hurting myself would hurt less then feeling neglected

bree

Sweetie I'm going through a difficult situation with my husband we have a one year old son an I'm pregnant with twin girls due in June he left me last week for someone else. It hurts like crazy but I have to not worry about him an focus on my son and the twin babies inside me. Cause me stressing will only hurt the babies. So I just pray about it and have faith that god will change his heart. So girl just leave him alone and let god work on ur boyfriend while you take care of the baby in you. He will come around.

Bethaney74

I'm so relieved to hear you were strong enough to be able to talk to your doctors about this. If you ever need to talk remember someone is always here.

MiracleM2B

You don't need him and you need to focus on your baby's needs! You're beautiful, as is every woman.