Just b done

keeleab

Just be done is how I feel right now I keep getting treating like shit so y do u. Stay in the relationship is what I think 2 myself, its so hard 2 let go my husband and I have been trying 2 Make this work but I think I should just leave. He tells me 2 stop being so emotional and stop stressing out but mostly its his fault for example. We drove down 2 Cr 2 day he hasn't been talking so I keep trying 2 start a convo with him and we get their and I say your not talking 2 me and he's like I don't care, okay whatever so he apologizes a lil later and im still pissed so since I didn't forgive him right away he got mad at me, so I say 2 him u have no reason 2 B mad, and he totally snaps and says bitch I can b mad I work and bust my ass of and u don't appreciate shit which I tell him all the time I do , and if u were doing shit we wouldn't b in this situation blah blah blah dirty nasty hoe every name u could think of this is just one example, is anyone in this situation or been wit someone like that any advice. I m not working I can't find a job but he is when he wasn't working I didn't say nothing 2 him 2 make him feel bad he treats me sometimes like im nothing at other times he's the best man ever irk what 2 do HELP!!! PLZ

jstnshrt

@keeleab
sorry i don't have any experience but just remember how amazing and beautiful you are and how you have an angel inside of you and be proud because you are a good.mom ... I really think u should sit down and make a list of the pros and cons about him and see which one outweighs the other. U deserve to be happy what will make u happy. Either decision will be hard for u I hope u figure out soon and just know either way your baby loves you

Jensensmommy15

Is this your first child?

keeleab

Thanks its hard im going threw alot right now and I don't even feel like living, idk what 2 do, I have no money or job im living with his familybwe where gonna get a appt 2 tether real soon but I don't think I should b with him I want 2 but he wont change he continues 2 put me down and feel like nothing but at other times he's wonderful so its hard I love him so much and I don't believe in divorce so idk what 2 do!

Jensensmommy15

And how long have you been together?

keeleab

Yeah its my first

keeleab

About 2 yrs

keeleab

We where best friends but he changed he has a temper problem

Jensensmommy15

He might just be stressed. My husband seems to snap at me at times. Its just hard for them to understand what are bodies and what we are going through. Try to give him a little bit of space when he gets like that to calm down.

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you should of left when he called u a b***-*, sorry but people like that will never change...... if you stay just know that things are never gonna get any better. i dont understand why women put up with crap like this!!!

keeleab

Well I don't have much of an option I could leave him and b on my own and have nothing, and go threw the heartbreak, when u love someone u put. Up with dumb shit but y should I is how I feel right now like its not worth it

keeleab

@newmomma15 he is stressed but i didn't do anything 2 him and I don't deserve 2 b treated like that ik that but I don't wanna leave the love of my life but it seems like the only option is 2 move on from him

Jensensmommy15

Try to be strong. How far along are you?

keeleab

Thanks ill try but its hard when im put down like that, About 7 months

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if he loved you he wouldnt put u down!!!! i understand when u love someone ur there thru good and bad, but never let any man put u down and call u names,.a relationship is based on trust communication and respect and it looks like he has no respect for u!!! and if there is no respect their really isnt a relationship... when u love someone real love then u dont do your best to no hurt that person... im sorry but thats just the way i think and feel

Jensensmommy15

If you think you want to be with him and when he gets in a mood just say ok and walk away. Let him cool off and go from there. My husband does the same shit but without the name calling. If you can't take it anymore and want out talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel. Let him know you can't take his outbreaks any longer and they stress you out

keeleab

@jenny1973 I understand what your saying and ii agree he should respect me its just I basically based my life around him , planned everything I wanna do in life with him so its gonna b hard so idk then he apologizes and I forgive him but how do ik if its censure if he keeps doing it

angie87

I was barely working and finishing up college when I got pregnant and I Graduated and now I dnt work at all. my hubby was getting on me and tring to say I dnt do nothing and blah blah and I just laid it down on him and just went off and told him like it is and he said a thing since and I dare him to say something to me cuz we both talked about things and agreed to things so if he even tries to say some bull he knows what's coming lol. maybe of u guys haven't talked it out it would be a good idea to

keeleab

We have tried 2 work it out and I tell him how I feel it seems like we have tried everything and nothing works so idk but thanks for the advice

Jensensmommy15

You just need to tell him exactly how you feel. Sit him down and just talk!

Jensensmommy15

When you talk does he say he understands and will try harder? That's what my husband says but then like a week later he forgot and starts yelling again

keeleab

Yeah and he does the same shit over he understands sometimes

Jensensmommy15

Do you have a friend or family member you could stay with for awhile?

keeleab

Yeah and he does the same shit over and over he says he understands me, but I could move im probably gonna eventually

z_mommy_2009

My hubby and I went through something very similar when I was preggo w our first. We fought almost nonstop...I started to think I made the wrong choice marrying him. Now, 2.5 yrs later, we still have plenty of rough times, but it has gotten a lot better. We r learning to read each.other better and to "pick our fights"

teenmommy23

im18 and my bd is just the same , they do dont appreciate anytthing we do bkut we must appreciate them when all they do is call us names . us bad names . mine is accussing me everyday of something new .

pooh22

I agree wit @Jenny9713 if u were working while he wasn't providing n shit y wen the tables are turned u gotta b batches n shit? I also dnt understand y he would call u a dirty hoe? U having his baby n its not like u dnt no the father.... on the other had yes he should clean after his self since u can't do it but if he wants to make extra money y complain I def understand u wanna spend time wit ur love n he is def wrong for not wanting to see ur baby n acting like it was killing him but at least he is making money cuz he could b one of those video game playing dnt wanna do shit ppl but the fact he is making money dnt give him the right to b disrespectful to u also if ur 7.5 months ur not gonna find a job so he can chuck that out the window until after u have ur baby no one is going to hire u jus the way it is n dnt b silent if he is talking down on u tell him u dnt have to put up wit that n he can b living life alone u should rather b broke n happy den rich n disrespected u dnt have to lower ur self cuz ur in love u must no u deserve better than how he is treating u cuz being stressed only stresses ur bundle of joy n might have it pissed at daddy in the future but have no clue y. I say if u dnt wanna divorce jus take a break leave relax have ur baby n a clear state of mind n once he realizes u might not b coming back cuz he has a temper (which never goes away btw) he might calm that down. Jus try it nothing worse can happen.

keeleab

I didn't say he didn't wanna c his baby, but I decided 2 stay and work things out I hope we can fix our problems and move forward irk what the future have but I have faith in us I can't give up

keeleab

I didn't say he didn't wanna c his baby, but I decided 2 stay and work things out I hope we can fix our problems and move forward irk what the future have but I have faith in us I can't give up