so stressed out...when will it get better? :(

So this is my first baby, suppose to be a joyous time right? WRONG! Omg o have been so stressed and its just getting worse. My hubby and I are both unemployed. He has been looking for a job sonce August and has had no luck. I have also been looking but the jobs I get offered are not paying crap, I get more on unemployment! We don't have health insurance so I applied for medi-cal but because of our income which is only unemployment mind you, we gross too much and have a share of cost (deductable) up to $2900/ mo. So I pay roughly $60 per doc visit and heaven forbid I have an emergency cuz i'd have to pay for services performed up to $2900 before medi-cal will step in to cover the rest. I'm 25 weeks now and pray he fonds something before baby comes so I can relax a bit and stop stressing. His unemployment runs out in august, ao if he doesn't find anything the only income we will have is my unemplyment which is not nearly enough to survive (1800/mo). After rent and bills and groceries and diapers we might be lucky to have $5 left. Ughhhh I pray something happens for the better soon

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  • Sorry for ur miafourten. Have daith and,im sure ur bd will find work soon.
  • Misfourten faith sry stupid touch screen
  • I know what u mean my bd has been affected by that military budget thingie but he's not in the military he works on the ships. So hasn't been to work and we haven't bought anything for the baby on the way I'm 32weeks so I'm stressing out too =\ I hope your husband finds a job soon goodluck hun
  • Thanks for the encouraging words ladies. @karelybabie I hope your bd gets back to work soon! I totally know how you feel. They say god doesn't give us what we can't handle..I just don't know how much more I CAN handle lol. We'll be ok, just gotta have faith :)
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