Boyfriend wants to give the Pound Action

SimplyJenai

Before I was prego my boyfriend and I use to have the best sex....omg lol...He use to beat it up in so many positions that sometimes I was in awe of his imagination but I was always down for the freak in him and myself...lol...Anyways now since I am almost 6 months we are limited to what positions he wants to do. Plus our sex life as decreased because we use to do it like rabbits now its like 1 to 2 times if any at all a week. So yesterday I just thought I would bring it to his attention and try to bring in a little seduction to get a little romance....cause when we do it now its kinda like wam bam boom no forplay nothing. So he tells me that to be honest my belly just doesnt do it for him..which set me off....I was like what do u mean by that he was like our son is always in the way and it frustrates him that he cant give me the pound action like he wants too....So I was pissed cause what I got out of that was u think Im fat and ugly and that I turn u off. Then he called hiself trying to sugar coat it saying that its not what I think it just is in the way and that he is just frustrated but pregnancy makes me more beautiful than ever. I just felt if u thought that we wouldnt have this major disconnect in the bed.


What do u guys think? NEED OPINIONS

sarahchild84

My husband and I are going through the exact sxame thing I am 6 months now and we've been together this nov makes lucky 7 yrs. We have incredible sex together. So much so we believe god made us just for eachother. However lately my belly gets in the way and he doesn't realize it but its been uncomfortable for me and I keep having to change positions a lot. Ugh and godforbid he decides to get ontop cuz then I've got to pee...that might as well end the fun there! My husband is in medc school so he knows we aren't hurting our son but its not the best we've had its just okay..seems like more work than worth lately for me. Especially because I can never get comfortable enough to really relax and enjoy it. Your bf isn't calling you fat. I know I've been there. Take it in stride. You have a beautiful baby belly mines just in my way. That's me telling you that not my husband. Try another approach. He could be afraid he's hurting the baby a lot of people have that fear. Go on a date to barnes and noble and check out some books for different positions while pregnant. Going out to look at them puts both of you in a less stressfull environment and can get you talking out your feelings with out you getting upset. Good luck love. And know this too shall pass.

charlotteb

My man wants it more when I'm pregnant, I on the other hand don't. It's uncomfortable for me, and he understands. It'll go back to normal after baby is out, but for now, he's prolly just as afraid of hurting u or the baby as he is confused on what positions work. Tho, anything where Ur on top, and any of the many doggie variations work quite well with the belly ;-)

SimplyJenai

On top leaves a space between us and its my little butterball but I agree with doggie

SimplyJenai

@sarahchild84 I hear u its just turns me off cause he is now even saying why ask question u dont wanna know. I dont want him to lie to me or sugar coat I just think wanting to have sex with me should be something he wants to do cause he slightly hinted not having sex until baby comes....but its like damn I cant get use to that

PEsMommY

If u have steps use them to kneel while he enters behind-supporting your belly and arms. Rear cowgirl while he's sitting on a chair, or spooning.
My hubby and I use to hump like rabbits as well, when my tummy popped out at 24 wks he started getting uncomfy. So one night I got out toys, lotions, lubes, oils,candles and put on a teddy (loose in the belly) and walked my hubby upstairs and began to play.a body Massage helped loosen him up and the whole intimacy lasted 3 hours, he was craving it. Now at 30 wks he asks when we can have another night like that, or takes his time since my body is different.
Good luck

SimplyJenai

@seifer12211 that sounds fun that is def an idea

expectingbabynumber3

Doggie style

SimplyJenai

I actually do doggie style for him but it really doesnt excite me to give me the big O u know

PEsMommY

@simplyjenai it was fun but we don't have alot of free time since we have a 6yr old in the house but that one night was perfect

SimplyJenai

Oh wow yea u right that just means u get more creative.

kayleigh27

My husband is just afraid to hurt me with my big belly so he has to go easy. You do just have to get creative. My husband thinks pregnant women are sexy (for some reason) but he still tells me he can't wait until I give birth to 'tear me up' in bed