I'm DONNNNE! (sorry, long)

edited April 2011 in Just for Fun
So after the 2nd day of getting in a fight with my bfs mom who lives with us, I moved out because thats what she wants. She is a 48 year old woman, never held a job, steals from me, and my bf (including opening credit cards in his name!) and she thinks everyone put on this planet OWES her something. Her mom & dad live in the house directly behind ours. She lives off of her dad. He is the only one who gives into her pity parties, gets her groceries twice a week and gives her money every weekend and drives her 45 miles to her friends house on saturday, and has to pick her up on sunday. Well my bf's dad has never been in his life. Angie is her name. She is the devil, I swear. She steals from her son and I and she honestly has it in her head that it's okay! She threw a fit the other day and took her dads keys because he didn't give her $400. Like really, grow up! She started yelling at me today bcause i didn't do the dishes that SHE dirtied, while I was doing homework. She calles me a worthless ignorant b*tch and says i'm a spoiled brat. She says i poisoned her son and "Tricked" him into getting me pregnant.

I know i'm none of the things she says I am. I just can't handle being treated the way she treats me and she honestly believes in her f*ucked up measly brain of hers that it's okay, and it's acceptable.

She thinks i'm spoiled because i've always had a job (until recently), my parents taught me morals and values and to work for everything I want, I went to Iraq and saved money to have the things i have, and because her son will someday move out before our child arrives.

I moved everything out and held back the tears until I got in my car to my moms house. My bf was working and really had no clue what went on. She wont even let me cook a meal for him, I can't do our own laundry, then she turns it around saying we "DON'T" do our own laundry. She EATS and DRINKS everything I buy. I use my WIC checks so they dont' go to waste, but i'm basically supporting her. She drinks a gallon of milk a day!
I just cried and cried all day. I want to be with my bf but we have no other place to live in town. Theres nothing else available to move into until august, right before i'm due. I feel like he has to chose between she and I. I refuse, absolutely refuse to live there. I told her she will never hold/see my child, and she doesn't even care. I

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  • You said she lives with you all so she should have been the one to- leave. I would just tell her like it is. Once you stand up for yourself she will change.
  • She should be the one leaving not you! I think you and your boyfriend need to kick her out or something!
  • I have told her to leave! Her dad, bought the house for my bf...but she thinks because she gave birth to him, it's partly hers. I honestly think she had him solely to one day support her.
    Thats exactly what i'm FINALLY doing @TricesBaby. It's just hard for my bf to understand the stress she brings me and how I cannot stand living there. He's lived there his whole life, so he doesn't realize the things she does aren't normal things a mother does. He doesn't understand how I can be SO stressed when he's lived with her for 22 years, although his gma and gpa next door raised him! I'm surprised I've made it 15 weeks honestly. I've been stressed since day 1 of living there, but I didn't want to resort to living with my mom in her soon to be new husbands house.
    I guess your right, before I lived there I drove to see him 3-4 times a week. Well now that his pickup is fixed, he can come see me.
    I honestly don't think she'll ever change @Mommie_McAtee Shes already 48 years old and has never been able to support her son, because she couldn't support herself! She is in all honestly, worthless...
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  • Oh my! Am so sorry u have to go thru this with this lady that is the grandmother of ur child! U need to do whats bests for u. If he really loves u his gonna have to sit down with his mom and talk with her, cuz seriously this lady seems like she has no respect for u. Oh sweety I hope he does the right thing! Not for him to choose ur mom over you but he is a grown ass man wit a child on the way n chooses u as his woman, he needs to put his mom in her place! I hope all gets better! Big hug hun! <3
  • Thanks, things seem to be ok so far, I mean I wish I could be with him everynight but thats just not possible right now. But hes coming to spend the weekend with me at my moms house, maybe we can compromise or something?! who knows...
  • But thanks for everyones concerns, I guess I just needed reassurance in what I was doing...thanks for everyones compassion I really appreciate my pregly mamas, afterall the days I spent in his room waiting for him to get home from work, Pregly has been my only escape and my only sort of friendship in our small town! But I appologize for the vent, just had to get it off my chest!
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  • Know what you mean my MIL thought for a while that we have to provide for my BIL witch is an adult and quits a job because of something stupid stole from us and took our children's food stuff we specially bought for them. I said something and was the bad person. I have to say if your bf wants his family together he will do something about it.
  • edited April 2011
    If its u & bfs home with your names on it. Legally you can evict her. Why doesn't she live with her parents?? When she leaves change the locks!! Also get your credit scores. Then you can see illegal activity & call them to see what action you need to take. As for the credit cards, call them & tell them its fraud. You should not have to pay & they will clear it up for you. I received a bill a few years back from Verizon saying I live in Indiana (don't live in that state) & owe $1000!! I called them told them my info & they cleared it up. I hope this info helps you & things work for the better.
  • wow shes evil glad u moved out! am sure bd will rather be wit baby n u..good luck hun
  • The thing is, its actually his gpas house (her dad). He got the house from his mother, and the house is going to Tyrell(my bf) which he told Tyrell it's his...Well his gpa and gma told me "don't listen to Angie, don't move out"....well why would I want to live there when she makes it hell. Theres only 1 "women of the house" well thats her. So I cannot move about freely, do my laundry, make my bf a meal, NOTHING. I sit in his room all day waiting for him to come home from work. So honestly I dont' mind being away from her stupid a*s! At least I can have my own space here, and do what i want! It just bothers me, noone will stand up to her and tell her NO! When Tyrell found out she opened a card in his name, he pressed charges, but his gpa MADE him cancel them...only because he knows HE'LL be paying for her mistakes! Its just not fair that this stupid low life of a women can all of a sudden "care" about her son. She didn't raise him, wasn't there for him and sure as hell didn't teach him any of the morals or values he possess! She's jealous that he's going to move out at some point and be a great father, something she didn't have for her son! Her dad just feels bad for her for some dumb reason unknown. Her own mom doesn't ever stick up for her and knows exactly what bridges shes burnt with everyone...its her dad that bails her out of everything and hands her money like it grows on trees...I WILL NOT be second best to anyone...nor should I have to be!
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