He's moving out.....AGAIN!
I own a cute little 1br condo that I bought when I was very young. It was great when it was just me but now with a bf and a baby on the way its cramped to say the least. I found out after I bought it that I wasn't allowed to rent it out and the housing market is preventing me from selling. Im trying to make the best of the situation. I've figured out how to give the baby his/her own space and I'm actually excited about it. My bf on the other hand isn't feeling it. We had some issues when I first got preggo, he decided not to come home a few nights, and I put him out. I took him back and things had gotten better until last night. We got in a huge fight and he didn't come home again. Tonight he comes in wanting to talk. I told him not coming home is unacceptable regardless of the situation and I wasn't putting up with it. One thing lead to another and he informed me that he doesn't feel like this is his home and he still has his old apartment which he goes to from time to time. This really hurt my feelings. I've been trying hard to make this place work for us. He has keys and his crap is everywhere. I don't have keys to his apartment or anything there. I told him if that's how he feels then that's where he should be living and he left. This weekend I plan to pack his stuff and change the locks. I don't think its fair for him to live 2 places and come in and out of my home when he feels like it. This is not how I planned to start our family. I would leave this place if I could but I can't. I don't understand why he can't make it work until we can buy a house like we planned for the sake of our family. I feel like he's being selfish.
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@victoriab Hes very excited about the baby and involved that's why I'm shocked its come to this. I know he's going to want to move back once the babies born but I'm firm on him not living 2 places. We're supposed to be in this together.