DIFFERENT PARENTING SKILLS NOT ABOUT HITTING!!!
Me and bf have very different parenting skills. FOR EXAMPLE our son has peed twice in wk on the living room floor and once in the kitchen. First thing I wanna do is hit him tell him he doesn't pee on himself he pees in the toilet.... bf approach take him to the bathroom and put him on the toilet!!!! for what?!? he did the shit on the floor he doesn't even say anything to him. My son is almost 2 1/2 knows exactly what he is doing .....
The point of this topic. how do some of yall couples deal with different parenting skills!?
The point of this topic. how do some of yall couples deal with different parenting skills!?
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And this topic was not about hitting it was about different parenting skills. so people trying to be a bitch in a nice way can be rude somewhere else :-)
..... guess we shouldnt allow to whip it up .... hmmmm
Back to main question. My hubby and I disagree sometimes on parenting, one of us thinks the other is too hard or soft on a subject. What we do is go where my son cant hear us and discuss why are reasons are better in our eyes. Sometimes we agree sometimes we don't but we'll try to work together to compromise. Doesn't happen much cuz my son is already disciplined. It's mostly lil things and when something does go down we catch it right away
I ran into a situation where my son didn't want to take a bath tonight. Granted he was in the middle of a movie, but I needed to get him the bath before I left for work bc I was trying to be nice and let his dad be stress free after a long day of work. Well his dad got mad bc he refused to get in the bathtub. So he started taking his clothes off and put him in the bathtub and told him to start washing up(well when i bath him I always wash him up I would rather get it all done faster and then let him just have play time in the bathtub) Well our son doesn't want to do it he is overly tired and crabby so he maeks him sit down and starts washing him up but is bein gmean about it. Our son is crying Mommy, I want mommy. Well he try stopping him telling him he is scaring him. His approach is to force him to do things all the time. While mine is to force him sometimes but I always try to listen to him and try to calm him down so he can tell me what is wrong and then try to comprimise. (if you let us do the bath then we can cuddle after bath and watch a movie.) Example maybe wrong but only one i can think of.(well she doesn't want to have sex so i'm going to force her to do it.) I never want him to see that forcing ppl is the one way to do things. Sry so long but that is my approach to parent. I choose compromise
@blessed1508 As for different parenting styles. My bf has a more stern parenting approach than I do. This is our first but ive observed his style with his nephew whom hes very involved with raising. I wouldnt step on his toes or undermine him especially in front of the child but it is important to be on the same page. Youre situation is a little different since its your stepson but the kid would not be peeing all over my floors. Let him try his way. If it doesnt work, point that out, and strongly suggest you both figure something else out.
@mommys1stbundle The post wasnt solely about potty issues it was how you handle parenting skills when the other parent has a different approach