beyond pissed at bd!!!

mom2be_oct_baby

So he emptied the bank account to fix his stupid car...keep in mind he's a roofer so when it rains, snows etc. He's out of work til the weather clears. I'm due in Oct and currently not working due to me being high risk. We have no money in the bank and a side job comes available for him to make extra cash so maybe we can save again and he says no I wanna work on my car. So he turned down a couple hundred we could put back in the bank! I asked for a prenatal listener 20 dollars and he screamed how stupid it was to buy it. Then today he's pissed off because I bitched about him wanting to run off to by a 50 dollar video game!!! Im beyond mad right now and just need to get it off my chest, so I can try not to be to stressed its not good for the baby....oh and yesterday he takes his precious car that we just put $1300 in to get inspected and disappears for hours his excuse I let my phone in the car I was at my moms, straight up bs, he always uses the same Damn excuse as to why he can't answer! Ok I feel a little better, srry so long thank u ladies for reading

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VictoriaB

I'd be kicking his a$$! Good for you to try to not stress, but damn, I'd be putting that car on Craigslist. Baby stuff is expensive and there's all sorts of stuff you need/want for the baby! Hell, the stroller/car seat system I want costs $300!

mom2be_oct_baby

@mshahir well I didn't really ask he was at the store with me, I picked it up and I said I wanna get this, and that's when he screamed at me

mom2be_oct_baby

@VictoriaB I should kick his a$$! he also buys random stuff constantly, tools he supposedly needs. and it seems he don't have an interest in the baby stuff I tried to show him the stuff I liked and he's like uh huh

lexi34

No offense but us women need to be smarter these days not saying ur not smart..but always always have a separate account u never know wat could go wrong no matter how good hubby is..he took out all the money now ain't nothing u can do about it and now feel.helpless.

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mom2be_oct_baby

@lexi34 I agree it would be smarter to have a separate account. I did take his bank card tho cuz my name is on the account as well

ginaa412

Yeah I been saving for the baby in my own bank account n so has he.

mom2be_oct_baby

@mshahir I am going to open my own account but not tell him

gladiator007

Sounds like a good plan. Separate account. It does sound lik he's being very responsible for your financial being. Please take care.

mom2be_oct_baby

I was smart enough to have my mom hold my tax return, I withdrew it the day it went in the account so I have 1500 saved of my own, but really how long does that last with a new baby...he just makes me so mad how he isn't saving anything and blows his money the day he gets it!

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lexi34

Men always feel like its their money and account money always bring problem in relationshis my mom had to get her own caz every time she wanted to buy something her husband would question her and ask y she need this and that basically trying to control her...but he would go spend as he like I hate to see men take advantage of women. @mom2be_oct_baby

jellybeaning11

yay good for you ! hopefully he wakes the f@*k up and realises his responsibilities soon ! mine is or was the same, same situation, took a while but hes pretty good now. he now realises what a proper father has to do although i do miss making my own money so bad. but i've got a positive outcome out of it. hope he comes round soon good luck.