he's in vegas for the weekend. should i be worried?

ambieluv

So I'm 9 weeks and he is in Vegas with his best friend and parents. I'm so nervous they're going to visit adult clubs. My bf has a lot of money and I'm nervous I'll never know if he went. His bff is single and ready to mingle. He claims his bff is broke tho and they're just going to chill and gamble. I feel like my bf is in bachelor party mode or something before we buckle down and have a family. He has never done anything for me to be suspicious I just know human nature. How do u ladies feel about strip clubs?

ambieluv

I afraid in not going to get any sleep at all this weekend

ArmyWifeMadiD

Preggo pillow helps me.... I have my husbands cologne on it and he some time steals it from me so his scent is all over it.... he goes to field for like a week at a time

1TiaNVelly

You have to chill out lady. things will be just fine, you have to let a man be a man. So what if he visits a adult club be confident that you are the love of his life. Hint hint, men love confidence!

ArmyWifeMadiD

but about strip clubs.... my husband is in the army with a lot of single guys and they go from time to time.... I have no problem with it.... because he knows I am going to Vegas with my girls....^.^ I won't touch if he doesn't.... is our deal.... he sticks to it.... lol

lovingmybabyboy

Strip clubs don't bother me. He can look but don't touch! I've been with him 11 yrs & I trusts him so much. You'll be just fine.

ashleywiini16

Strip clubs bother me. It even grosses me out when single men go lol. When I was younger I used to go with my friends to strip clubs occasionally, it's just not my scene anymore and definitely not somewhere Id want my hubby spending his free time or money! Id probably feel just like you put in that situation ... but id try and think positive and just trust him. Just give him the benefit of the doubt ... easier said then done I know hang in there and try to keep yourself busy! Go get appetizers and VIRGIN margaritas with your girlfriends:)

ArmyWifeMadiD

Or a burger a non-alcoholic brew ^.^

ArmyWifeMadiD

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ambieluv

I only want him lusting after me. I am very confident I just don't share. He wouldn't let me go to an adult club. I'm not ok with him spending future families money on half naked vegas girls when he can have all of me.. (I have a very curvy feminine body and I'm told very good looking not trying to sound conceited just explaining that I am very confident) I'm his trophy girl but still I know guys like eye candy and I just don't share my men in any way shape or form. I've also never loved anyone like I love him. I already have a five year old from a previous relationship ...

ashleywiini16

Yes! Anything to get your mind off of what he's doing and enjoy yourself

ambieluv

I feel so vulnerable

ambieluv

I have some plans this weekend with my girls but still he has three nights in VEGAS! I just fear the worst. I do trust him. I know he has a lot to lose with me but guys have dog tendencies ..no matter how long your married. Men lust what they can't have.

ashleywiini16

Then Im sure you can trust him:) he knows what he has at home! Im selfish that way too lol... I want ALL his attention... if I saw another girl trying to get attention from him id be flattered... but id also want to give her a black eye heehee

1TiaNVelly

If you know guys have dog tendencies then you also know a dog always finds his way home

ambieluv

thx. Yea he is great at reassuring me. I really have no reason to think so negative. Were both very honest wth each other. He says he's mainly going to win us money for the baby.

ambieluv

Yeah only this doggie door will be closed.

ArmyWifeMadiD

I mean as long as he isn't blowing his money there.... my husband goes and I find out he never buys lap dances orgives money to the dancers.... he plays pool and drinks a few beers.... lol.... you never know your husband might be the same way.... my husband may look, which is completely natural, but I know he loves me and my body.... maybe give him your own show when he gets back.... they make very cute maternity lingerie

1TiaNVelly

I feel you. Lol. Remember when we are pregnant we are emotional. Give him a break

jcmommy

If he's never given you a reason to not trust him, then let him have fun. Trust is everything.

ambieluv

Lol we do that all the time. He gets what he wants our sex life is amazing. I know were mutually happy with it. I just think he is thinking that this is the last time he gets to be kid free. This is his first. I'd probably run wild if I were a guy idk. I have two brothers around my age and I have more guy friends than girls so I know how guys can be no matter how good of a girl they got hack home. It doesn't matter when ur in the moment and what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas

ambieluv

I know i havent even told him I'm worried because I want him to enjoy himself while he's there he's a great guy. But still the thought of it drives me insane and I'm borderline obsessing! I know its not good for me.

ArmyWifeMadiD

Lol.... am the same way.... dad raised me I have only brothers and most of my friends have "kick stands" lol and it too me FOREVER to look past what I know my brothers and friends have done.... but I had to....

ashleywiini16

Lol! Maternity lingerie!!! I am going to have to get me some! But I really don't think I would stop laughing at myself once I put it on!!! My hubby loves my tiny baby bump now... and im sure he will as it grows... but I really don't know when im going to feel 'sexy' again heeheehee. I bet it is cute though:)

ArmyWifeMadiD

ddefiantly not good.... you don't want to stress the baby out or get it upset either.....

ljubavi

Don't. Be cool. Never show insecurity to any man, just let it go, get some books to read, go shopping and don't even think about anything. I hate strip clubs.

ArmyWifeMadiD

they are so adorable.... I had no idea they existed utilities I got a baby talk magazine and I ordered one....^.^.... my husband loves me being pregnant.... most men do love their wives being pregnant.... not to mention sex is like ten time better feeling to him.... but I know what you mean.... I feel like any second thing are going to start orbiting around me.... lol....

ambieluv

I know thanks ladies for the support. I know he loves me and I know I'm everything he's ever wanted. It must be the hormones

ArmyWifeMadiD

It happens.....^.^ are you having a girl?

ashleywiini16

Why is that? I mean I know since I've been preggers I've wanted it a LOT more often, but why is it that he does too??? I've been wondering that... why does it or would it feel better for the guy?

ambieluv

I don't know. Im only 9 wks I want a boy I already have a 5 yr old girl. He wants a boy too