20 weeks today but not showing or feeling my baby..?

tjscrd

I had an appointment last Tuesday and she said my uterus was right where it should be, everything was normal, and we even heard the heartbeat. I used to feel some things (I could never tell for sure if it was gas bubbles or baby) but I haven't for a few days. I'm a little overweight but more just..chubby. Is this normal? Should I be feeling my baby?

tjscrd

Sometimes I can feel my hearbeat through my abdomen, so I get paranoid that the heartbeat I heard was my own.. is that possible at all? Or am I really just thinking the worst?

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One way to know that it was the baby's heartbeat is, it's way faster than your hb and the baby's hb is over 100 and yours isn't. What was your baby's heart rate at your last appt?

babies12

You can feel movement between 18 to 24 weeks. Its different for each person especially if this is your first.

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kayleigh27

When I was 20 wks I actually went 3 days not feeling my baby at all. Everything was perfect. Just depends on where the baby is lying in there

mam082711

I really didn't start feeling him til a little over 21 weeks I'm 22 weeks now and some days he's doing all sorts of gymnastics and others he's not so noticeable.

caroline8_p

I'm. 22.3 weeks, still not showing.. well other people can't tell. I'm finally making a tshirt poke out a little, but most prob think I need to lose a few lbs, lol. But I feel her kicking all the time, pretty regular sched she has.

tjscrd

@tootie08 she didn't tell me the rate, she just said it was fine. But It didn't sound extra fast to me.

I go through Indian Health Service and they're very quick and impersonal. I'm waiting on an ultrasound but being new in this state I don't have any other insurance and that needs to be done at the regular hospital. -.- I'm just impatient. I need better reassurance.