no having the support u really need

kkay

Hello...I'm due on oct 1st...an this is my 3rd...I have a son frm a previous relationship an me an my husband have a 4yr old 2gether...I always wanted a baby girl cuz I have the 2 boys...so me gettin pregnant was like a dream for me...me an my husband have been havvin unprotected sex since sept...an I jus got pregnant in jan...but he is old enough 2 know if u don't protect urself u can get pregnant....so when I missed my jan period I took at test an ofcourse it was positive...I told him an an his whole face an additude changed.... like he tells me now that he has to work harder an that is gonna be tighter with money...an yes I agree but this is our baby..am we can make it...he has days when he walks around here all quite an dosent talk 2 me...an he asks me not 2 talk about the baby cuz we haven't had an ultrsound yet...sooo!...its n my body an I'm excited...he thins so negative about the situation instead of supporting me an understanding that this is our baby....I jus wonder if he will come around..

bjejvj

Sorry you're having to deal with this. I've heard of fathers not being happy in the beginning but then coming around later on like when you start showing or when he can feel the baby. I hope he comes around sooner than later.

mrshurst

I had this same problem with my first baby. My husband wasn't sure how to act. I felt like I went through my first pregnancy by myself. He wouldn't rub on my belly unless I asked over and over. Little things ya know. And now that I'm pregnant again he hasn't really said anything much. But he will loss my belly amf rub on it but I have to ask. I hope things better for you girlie! I'm hoping my husband will come around too!