Bd Problems??

edited April 2011 in Pregnant
Well i just wanted to know if anyone is having bd problems, i feel like sometimes im the only one and i get sad when i see young couples eXpecting all happy and together, im so happy that im having my baby but sometimes i do want my bd around.
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  • Sometimes you see young couples who look happy but really they aren't. If you don't mind me asking why is your bd not around?
  • Me the father of my child just told me he is signing over his rights so don't feel alone I'm here with you!!! Inbox me anytime...
  • I love mine very much but at times like five to ten a day I wish he would go away for a day so I can breathe but I think if that happened I would freak out idk but were not that young either I'm 25 and he's 31
  • edited April 2011
    very very long story, but to put it short me n my bd of a year we recently broke up in jan n we kept "seeing" each other like in feb he started seeing some girl from work so i started talking to new ppl after he found out he got pissed n asked that girl out, so whatever in march i found out i was preg he didnt want me to keep the baby but i am sooo against abortions i kept it n he hates me cuz i "ruined" his life n till now that girl does not know about the baby n she found out threw the grape vine but he still denied, n he still trys to talk to me but all he does is puts me down n both of the family are so supportive, but its so hard to get ovr him n now its even harder cuz im having his baby.
  • @Mybabe thank you so much! :)
  • @Dliz_21 & @Mybabe how far along are you???
  • OMG what a dick he needs to tell her it seems he doesn't care for her very much either since he's not being honest with her either ggggrrrrr men I swear r such dogs most of the time
  • @1_Bubbly_Mommy I am 13w2d, and you?
  • I am 16wks5days!!! When are you due i'm due Oct 6th!
  • @momof22be i kno tell me about none of his family even likes her i feel bad for the girl and he treats her like s*** i am so glad thats not me, like he trys to keep it cool with me but then starts acting all wierd, well what do u expect from a 21yr old hes just into his own things, its hard for someone u love to even leave u like that:/ grrrr
  • @1_Bubbly_Mommy aww lucky lol i just wana hald my baby already! i am due Oct 29
  • I don't know what I would have done if my husband would have done that to me he did ask if it was his well the first time around I was 17 he was 22 and we were just married fir like a month when I found out but there has been quite a bit of cheating on his part since so its probably fir the best that ur not with that doosh bag my husband has stopped cheating but if j would have known ahead of time I would have left
  • When do you find out what you are having and i feel you girl i have been with my bd for 7yrs and me and him still have our disagreements!!!
  • edited April 2011
    Oh man :( I'm very Sorry to hear that xc my bd and I aren't together either he had lied to me from the beginning and didn't tell me that him and his ex of 2 years had just broken up like literally a day before -___- anywho we were dating since December and in late February I found out I was prego he left me to go back to his ex who has a bf wtfluff? and I found out he had been sleeping with his ex the whole time and he hates me for "ruining" his life too and he's just super rude and I can't stand him and his family is not supportive xc but having him around would be nice.... if he wasn't a douche
  • edited April 2011
    @momof22be ugh if we could only understand why men are the way they are lol but i just pray that everything will work out between us and just try for the baby.
  • @charliebby1116 im sorry to hear that:( but i just dont get whats the point of even calling me n tryna keep it cool if he wont say the truth n i end up getting on his "nerves" just cuz im tryna be civil n work it out for our baby, but i just hope everything works out n if not just kno u have ppl on pregly that support you! lol :-D
  • @1_Bubbly_Mommy in june they tell me do you kno what ur having?
  • Omgosh he's the same way he texts me like nothings wrong and everythings fine then after a while turns psycho on me ugh so annoying I wish he'd just leave me alone... thank you girlie :) its nice to hear that and if you ever need anything let me know Kk :)
  • I find out in 8 days on May 4th! What are you hoping for?
  • @charliebby1116 omg lol same here it just makes me sad he was never like this with me but ever since he turned 21 his life revolves around partying n i understand the parts where he tells me hes scared cuz his dad was nevr around, n he told me he will b there for the baby but he doesnt ever wanna be my friend or talk to me so whats the point of being there if u wont be civil with me when we need to make the best decisions for the baby?
  • @1_Bubbly_Mommy aww, i want a boy:) what about you?
  • Mmm well since i don't want to jinx myself i'm just hoping for the best and a healthy baby lol everybody will know when i go to find out if my prayers were answered or not lol!
  • Oh my goodness are we talking about the same guy? Lol besides the partying he's exactly the same! Wtfluff? Lol like exactly! Well I really don't want him in my life at all hes crazy but he says he wants to be there for the baby but he's so crazy I don't even want him in my babys life I'm so afraid of him hurting it or getting its hopes up and then disappearing and somehow he thinks its ok to call it a mistake and says he always will xc
  • @charliebby1116 haha like i know my bd has a good heart but hes too involved in his own things n i dont want my baby to grow up without a father idk lol i just keep praying he`ll change cuz im done crying from him its not good to be sad n preggers, if i can ask where r u from?
  • Definitely see where your coming from you guys were actually together for a while :) so I'll keep you guys in my prayers :) sure I'm from oc ca you?
  • yeah ill keep you in my prayers too so everything will go good for you and your baby! im from san fernando valley ca like a hour away from you lol
  • Thanks :) I appreciate that... oh nice! How far along are you?
  • @charliebby1116 i am 13w2d, n you?
  • Oh were close :) I'm 11 weeks as of today :)
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