2nd trimester blues:( need support

xcutiepie143x

Really upset and getting pissed off @ my midwife. 17wks5d and I'm still extrmely sick. Zantac phenegran an zofran don't work at all and I've lost 15lbs so far an 5lbs in 1 week. I'm not able to eat or keep anything down besides like 2 or 3 things. I feel amazing when I don't eat well nausea wise I'm weak an tired tho. my midwife doesn't care last appt she sent in a nutrionist who told me to make a grilled cheese sandwich with apples on it and eat/rub lemons under my nose. An I love lemons but doesn't make me not sick. I'm soooooooooo hungry that by the end of the week I stuff my face and regret is cause like today I threw it allll up. Id rather throw up than sit around for hours feeling like I need to. Thank god for my fiance I could not do this alone no fricken way. have a 2yr old to take care of an I feel so bad cuz all he wants to do is play w his mama and I push him away cuz I gotta run in the bathroom an throw up. I don't know if I have something else going on or what. It just sucks when ur midwife doesn't care @ all an just keeps giving you the same lecture an the same meds that don't work. I see a private nurse an she cares more about me than my midwife does! She faxed over our discussion of how I can't eat sleep good or drink and they haven't bothered to call me. I'm getting into this deep depression I can't live a normal life. don't know what to do I'm feeling stuck and helpless.

armywife19

Aww im sorry. Maybe u might wanna tell ur midwife how u feel about her not giving advice that's what she's there for. Or maybe find a new one..but that could be hard. And if u can't keep liquid down or food i would def go to the er and they will give you an iv to keep u and baby hydrated. I hope you feel better soon.

[Deleted User]

Im so sorry you have to go through this and then have a stinky health provider. I say tell her how you feel and if you see no improvement I say find a new one.

This time is about you and your comfort.