Just cuz she's preggers with raging hormones like most of us women here doesn't mean she's lost her common sense of knowing she has a great man at home that's doing all he can for her. I'm not against bringing it up to her and talking about ur feelings but don't push the topic too much cuz then she's going to have trust issues and be pushed away. She needs ur support but also a lil girl space. Even tho ur understanding and helpful these r trying times. Just hang in there I don't think she's going anywhere cuz ur a great man and when her hormones drop a bit u 2 will enjoy watching ur baby grow in her tummy and know u did it as a team. Hang in there dad! Ur awesome.
@daddytattoo If talking to her isn't working why don't you try writing her a letter. Tell her how much you love her and the baby on the way. Then express your concerns. Buy her some flowers and leave it as a surprise for her. Maybe she will appreciate the gesture and also she will know exactly how ur feeling
I think its extremely cute you're worried and she may too. You normally hear women worried about men cheating so I do believe she will see you only care. Just tell her exactly what you put here. You have everything and you never wanna lose it. Everyone needs a lil reassurance occasionally from the person you love.
Since you both have this, I read hers&now yours. I can tell how much you both love each other-I don't think she would stray. Don't waste time on negative thoughts, while you're worrying about something that you think could happen, you're wasting time you could (& should!) be enjoying. Hang in there, women do have hormones fluctuating while pregnant, its normal. Just try to understand her body is changing at rapid speed& try not to take it personal. I'm willing to bet she answers in an angry tone because she is hurt you would even think it possible that she would be unfaithful. Best wishes! When is she due?
Honestly, my advice is a little different; both me and my spouse were cheated on before we met & in my experience, the best thing possible you can do is please stop bringing it up & TRUST her! She is most likely just as scared of being alone & pregnant & would never cheat on you while she's pregnant with YOUR baby! I would go insanse if my husband hounded me with it over & over. If you've told her once, that's enough. Just tell her you love her & be the best, most supportive partner through this pregnancy you can be. Trust me, it will be more than enough!
For a soon to be mom the last thing on her mind is cheating... she's more worried about how she looks an how u may change... it'll help her stay Happy if u say sweet things an do random things Like massage her feet... she's really needs u so don't get upset when the mood swings kick in... just try to be understanding
IMO..any woman with self respect would not cheat on her spouse or significant other while she is carrying his baby. Also your insecurities are probably driving you and her both nuts. Sit down and have a talk with her over dinner or something...be sincere and speak from your heart. Good luck!
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