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NovemberMommy

Hello beautiful pregnant ladies...ok so here is my problem...lately i have been arguying a lot with my boyfriend and its always my fault i over react and i feel so sensitive to everything he says. I feel so out of place like everything bothers me and i cant stand waiting too long to get a text back from him ive never been like this and i know i am getting on his nerves and he doesnt understand that my hormones are up and runnin and that they cause all these mood swings...am i wrong about this? I mean is this all just in my head or does pregnancy really throw some women off and makes them "bitchy" at times?

TheTrondsons1st

Im due in november too! I am like that at times too with my husband.. just some things he does or says makes me super mad when they used to not... but its getting better! I believe in hormones for sure.

NovemberMommy

@thetrondsons1st ugh ok glad to hear that and yeah i cant stand some things he does or says either

pregnantlettemama

Im almost 24 weeks, and i still do the same thing. Every little thing drives me crazy. I even yelled at my boss last night... Oops. Luckily most ppl understand.

NovemberMommy

@pregnantlettemama well thats good that they understand i really dont know how else to explain this to my bf so he can understand he says its all bs

jellybelly1015

Derfinately hormones. Mine havent been as bad as yours, but some people get it really bad. I was never cry at the drop of the hat type of girl, but bam, it is happening. I cry at everything, I watched LOTR and cried when Gandalf died... hello, I know he come back. My hubby thought it was hilarious... "Awe, Gandalf come back in the second movie!" and ran away laughing. It is completely normal, try talking to him to let him know that while you are trying to be patient, you are flooded with hormones that make you jump more than you ever had. Good luck!

jellybelly1015

BS?? WTH??? Smack him and then ask him if that felt like BS. Seriously, hopefully he will come around.

NovemberMommy

@jellybelly1015 yeah i tend to get very emotional too, and yes i do need good luck with him, i just wish he could walk in my shoes for one day so he could understand what im going through

Mommy2BeAgain

Lol girl dont feel bad. Ive turned into a physcho bitch with this pregnancy. Im 12wks and sometimes I cant even stand myself. I just sat down and had a conversation with him and I told him.....
"listen Im pregnant and my hormones are insane. I know that alot of times my rants are super irrational and over the top most of the time for no reason. So I want to apologize now for my crazy attacks and the many more to come till I pop this baby" he kind of understood.and now just ignores me when im being crazy lol maybe you should try talking to him

NovemberMommy

@mommy2bagain trust me ive tried so many different ways of telling him but im just about ready to give up he doesnt understand crap i tell him and the more i tell him the more he thinks im crazy and what hurts me the most is when he says that if he knew i was gonna acy like this that he wouldnt have gotten me pregnant

mommyjess

I'm due in november, as well. November 12th actually
My guy also had no clue as to what I m going through.. finally I got ill and broke down.. I went out and bought him a daddy book for during pregnancy.. luckily we had tornados and stuff goin on and he finally picked it up out of boredom. He came around after he read how harmful stress can be..now he caters to my every need.. girl, don't put up with it. It stresses you out.. you don't need that, nor does the baby. Try the baby book thing.. if that doesn't work.. maybe he isn't worth having around. Single mommys are strong mommys.