Baby shower dilemmma?!

edited May 2011 in Baby showers
Ok so my step mother in law said she was throwing me a baby shower back when she first found out I was pregnant, and that I never had one for my son. and then in march she said it would be may 7th. So I let my family know cuz I'm only having 1 shower, than she changed it to may 14 cuz may 7 her employee was going on vaca, then changed it from the 14th to the 21st so my son could come and the hall was free. So I told my family again and made a fb event so everyone knew. Well last night she text me to say its gotta be moved to the 29th cuz she forgot she had plans the 21st. I'm extremely grateful for her throwin my shower, even tho I have no clue whats going on or theme, I'm just happy to have one. My dilemma however is that I have to explain to my family that the shower is changed yet again and memorial day weekend. Ive already had family members request off work for the 21st now it's like whoops sorry. I just feel like I'm gonna be a pain telling its changed, I get its not my fault, but I just feel guilty. Should I have 2 diff showers or cross my fingers and pray everyone can come and it goes well. My family is very close, always has been so I really wanna celebrate with them. What do u think I should do? Or suggestions?

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  • I would do two just to make sure your family can go. It sound like they dont care about your feelings, just whats good for them.
  • I would say...if a lot of people have rsvp'd to the event then maybe just do it yourself and hold it at your place or a friends house. If not a lot of ppl are coming...I would just tell them the date has changed again.
  • Thank you @kerrideern @veseminora1 & @octmommy..

    I have 18 people (my family n friends) that rsvp'd to the 21st date... I guess I'll post asap on fb, but I had the fear of em making plans on 29th cuz its a holiday weekend. Glad to hear I'm not selfish
  • I would tell her you sent out the invites and you can't change the date yet again. So if she wants to change it for whomever she invited then fine but your side already said they were coming the 21st.
  • K. Next question is it ok to throw yiur own shower
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