Help me before i go crazy on him -Long

Serenibaby

So my husband and I own an ice cream shop. I'm working as much as I can b4 I get too uncomfortable. I am 21 weeks tho and already uncomfortable, tired and nausceous. I was at work all day yesterday from 10:30am until 10:00pm.
I asked him to come hang with me which he didnt so I figured he would help me close up. I called him all afternoon asking him and he finally said he would. Well at closing time I waited for him to sweep and mop for me since it hurts my back and he didn't show up! I called him and he got pissed I was bugging him and started yelling at me! He was home watching TV ALL day and he can't mop the dang floor for me?!?!
I know he doesn't feel good (depression for a long time) but I'm PREGNANT! This is nothing new for him either. He bought me the business but he doesn't work and doesn't pull in any money to support us. I am so frustrated. He tells me to just hire people if I don't want to work. Well no *hit I would love to just hire people but its an ice cream shop not a multi million dollar company!!!
What do I do? Now he's mad at be because I told him that the dishwasher from the restaurant next door will be invited to our daughters birth instead of him because he takes the trash out for me at the end of the night...

laura536

You're going to have to sit down with him and have a discussion about his responsibilities. And possibly have him see a dr for his depression. Someone should be working part of that day with you at least, and if he's not willing to do it, then he'll have to get a job so you can hire someone. I worked full time with my last pregnancy til the day I delivered, I barely had a baby bump and I was still miserable. The further along you get, the harder it will be, plus you'll need time off after the baby, so you're going to have to get him to step up.