i neeed to moveee out!!

preggo123

MY MOM CAME HOME ANDD WAS A COMPLETE B WORD AND ONLY TOO ME CAUSE I'M PREGNANT SAYING IMMA GO GET MY NAILS DONE.ND.I SAID NO CAUSE I HEARD BEING IN THE NAIL PLACE IS BAD FOR PREGGO WOMEN CAUSE OF THE SMELL AND SHE TOLD ME IDGAF UR GOING NO ONE TOLD U TO BE PREGNANT. ANDDD STARTED SAYING. SHE SAYING SHIT ABOUT MY BF SAYING I WANT U TO GET UR NAILS DONE I DON'T WANT U LIKE A WAB LIKE HIM AND NOT LIVE LIKE WE HAVE BEEN LIVING. ..OK SOO MY FAM HAS MONEY BUT IDGAF IM HAPPY WITH MY BF ND WERE BOTH MEXICAN HE'S NOT POOR BUT SHE DOESN'T LIKE HIM CAUSE SHE FEELS LIKE HIS FAM IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH UGH MY MOMS A IDK HOW TO CALL HER ANYMORE SHE'S SOMETHING ELSE I NEED TOO GET OUT OF HERE..
I'M HERE CRYING AND INSTEAD OF BEING THERE LIKE SHE WAS FOR MY SIS WHEN SHE GOT PREGGO SHE'S NOT BY MY SIDE SHE DOESN'T LOVE ME I FEEL LIKE IT SINCE LONG AGO SHE TREATS ME DIFFERENT I JUSS WANNA BE LOVED THAT'S ALL...:(((

angel26

That doesn't sound like a very good mom. I am sorry she is mean. I agree you need to move out. I'm sorry.

preggo123

@angel26 I know honestly I'm thee happiest I've ever been now that I'm preggo andd likee I want my fam to be happy which they are but she just has thiss hugeee ANGER in her for me...idk but I'm 20 I am an.adult already when my oldest sis got preggo she was 16 andd She was upset at like the first day than thee next she was all happy nd excited gave her everything nd she treated her bf like he was welcomed nd let me tell u her bf soon too be hubby on sat is thee biggest asshole ever he disrespects my mom nd etc but I guess she likes that than a guy that respects her andd my whole family which my bf does but idk she's something else...my bf is picking me upp after he's off from workk.

KBizzle

Why don't you guys start looking for a place together? I'm 20 too and I'm 5 weeks. How far along are you? My bf and I are starting to look for our own place. How old is ur bf?

preggo123

@KBizzle we r both 20 andd we r but meanwhile he wants me too move in at his house save upp more money and buy a house cause we don't wanna live in an apartment u know cause we can afford one but nah we both perfer a house. So yeah aww congrats and I'm 10weeks4days
)

KBizzle

Thanks. Congrats to you too. You don't wanna move into his house? That sucks that ur mom supported ur sister and not you but it could be for lots of reasons. My mom AND dad both like my sister more than me too lol.

preggo123

@KBizzle thank-you: )) and yeahh I am going too move in today actually the only thing that's likee ehhh is that he has a indoor dogg nd I'm terrified of dogss.:(but imma havee too suck it upp. Lol andd well yeahh my mom always treated me differently than my other sistersss. Soo its like a heartbreak too me it hurts soo much!

preggo123

@9_2011 yeah but the smell makes.my stomache hurt a lot...that's why I stay away from.there plus my doc said.no especially since this is my first trimester

KBizzle

Yeah nail salons are bad news lol. Which totally sucks cuz I hate not having my nails done lol. Well that's good you're getting out of that negativity, stress can cause brain damage to ur baby. And who knows maybe ur mom will start to miss you and act differently. But you can't go on how your mom is reacting she's allowed to have her own reactions you can only be in control of ur reactions. My dad is being a total ass about the whole thing and I just told him today you know this is what I'm doing this is making me happy and I want you to be involved but if you're only going to be negative towards me than I'm going to have to limit my time with him. That way you put the ball in their court.

preggo123

@9_2011 of course not but just thee fact that shee said I am going and I have too its like wtf u must not really care for my bby. Nail salons. Aren't a good place for any preggo lady to go cause of the smell .so yeahh idk.
@KB

preggo123

@KBizzle yeahhh I know its not a.good place too be at...the smell is tooo strongg.yuck ha.. and well yeahh I texted her cause she left andd I told her I'm moving out nf she said pls noo that she's sorry she's just been stressed wit my sis wedding nd I.said that doesn't mean u have too take it upp only at me. Nd she's like I know I'm sorry...ughhhh I'm confused noww I think imma just sleep at my bfs for tonight and.think bout all this..

KBizzle

She could be in denial and just want to continue on with the norm you know.

KBizzle

I would still move out you know prove your independence. And you said she doesn't like ur bf maybe he needs to show her that he can take care of you. You gotta just do what makes you happy and what's best for your baby. Even if ur mom apologizes afterwards she still upset and put you under stress which is bad. Go where you feel the safest.

preggo123

@KBizzle yeahhh trueee.ur right. I think I still am.

KBizzle

You're so lucky you get to move into a house right away, well not right away but you know. Have you lived on your own before? I've lived on my own but I've never had to pay bills or anything, that's what I'm worried about.

preggo123

@KBizzle I've never lived on my own soo I'm a bit scared but I'm sure we will be finee.:@)

Soo how is ur pregnancy going for u soo far?

KBizzle

Well I just found out for sure yesterday but we've been kinda suspicious so I mean just some stomach aches every now and then but other than that I don't feel any different. I have my first doc appt tomorrow it still doesn't feel real to me lol. How about yours? Any changes yet?

preggo123

@KBizzle yeahhh its not gunna feel real for awhile it still doesn't feel real too me yet just because I haven't gone.too my ultrasound yet but I will nxt Friday.
soo it will be real once I see my liddo onee heehee.:@)
I can't wait...wooohoooo

KBizzle

Yeah I just wanna be like three months already lol. I want a bump already. Ugh you're lucky lol. I think I get an ultrasound may 31.

preggo123

@KBizzle yeahhh aww me.too I have a lil bump but I want a big onee.:))) I loveee baby bumps heehee

KBizzle

I never thought anything about being pregnant was cute lol but now I can't wait. You have a bump already!?

preggo123

Just a lil onee heehe