Ectopic Pregnancy
Has anyone had an ectopic pregnancy? I did a few months ago and it led to eternal bleeding so they had to remove my tube. We are trying again but I'm still having a hard time with the loss Id love to hear your story, it would help me to know I'm not the only one going through this.
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss, wow twins must have been very hard to deal with all the maybes and what ifs. Fingers crossed though!
It does not decrease your chances half because u only have half of your equipment, it increases you RISK of gaving another by 50% basically once u have had one you run a high risk of having another. However, im very strong in my faith, and I srill have tHe feaR EVERYTIME, i have dodged the repeat bullet 3x. So keep trying, be positive, take care if yourself, and have higher faith in tge promises God has made to you than the words a dr says.
I hate when people say, "it was meant to be" that just pisses me off, it never makes you feel better. I'm sure you could have taken care of them just fine otherwise God wouldn't have blessed you with them. I know he has a plan for all of us but it doesn't change the feeling of the loss. I still have my pg test as well, its hard to move past it.
My doc said since they removed my tube then my chances of it happening again were back at 4% like normal ppl. But it just sucks cuz I have 1 already and she's turning 2 this month and we've been trying since June cuz I didn't want them to be more than 3 years apart. So now I have to wait 30 more days til I ovulate, it really sucks. But my doc promised if I don't get pregnant next month that she'll help me
I do have a lot of faith in God that he will bless us again with many more children. I guess I'm more just impatient than anything.
I can honestly say I know what u are going through and it is still soon, it will get better!
however, i will tell you that shit happens, to everyone, and life sucks.
My best friend for the past 13 years has PCOS & finally after 3 years of trying to conceive found out she was 9 weeks pregnant when she was rushed to the emergency room with over half of her blood volume in her abdomen. Her ectopic had ruptured her right tube and she had been bleeding out for the better part of 24 hours. It wasn't until she fainted that she thought she had anything more than bad gas pains.
They were unable to save her tube in the process. She was faced with the reality of having one tube, and having one functional ovary that was covered in cysts and rarely if ever ovulated.
Within a year, she found out she was pregnant again, she now has a fat, happy, healthy 8 month old son Ayden, who is so adorable. Also, she just found out she is pregnant again, with her second.
Keep your chin up, your time will come. You aren't crippled, you aren't damaged, you just have an obstacle to overcome, and I'm sure that you will.
Thanks! What an inspiring story!