ready to cry...vent...kinda long

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
So my bfs ex and bm was texting him last night bitching that he doesn't pay child support (currently doesn't have a job but looking) and doesn't see their daughter...well he doesn't see her cause when he does she doesn't let him take her and makes him stay there and she tries to have sex with him! She even had the nerve to ask him to have another kid with her after her 21st birthday! I hate this girl! We don't get along at all! Well I haven't talked to her in about a year...anyway my bf and his family has asked megan (the baby momma) to keep jayda (the daughter) away from my bfs half sister beth...she has been disowned by the family because she is no good! She has stds a drug addict (got the stds from using dirty needles) steals and has even jumped my bfs mom! So no good at all...well megan had the nerve to tell him she didn't care! That she would have whoever she wanted around jayda since he has me around jayda! And then said that the only way jayda would know her half brother is if he took my son over there! But before he can have jayda around my son she wants a dna test to prove that the baby is his since she doesn't think he is! I love my bf but everytime he talks to his bm they fight and everytime they fight she blames me and my unborn son for everything! We don't and haven't done anything to this girl! I just don't get it! I'm sick of being blamed for everything! I'm so pissed off that I'm shaking and about to cry! I hate it! Oh and when she first found out we were pregnant she said that we were selfish because he didn't ask her first or consider her feelings! My son is very welcome but unplanned! And she tried (on purpose) to get me to have a mc! Sorry guys just needed to vent! I'm so hurt and upset!

Comments

  • You and your boyfriend need custody over that little girl! I'm sorry you have to deal with that
  • I just don't understand. I think you are not being told the truth. Maybe its time to get out all together. I am sorry u are going through this and good luck.
  • @Alana We want to so bad! I think this finally convinced him to take his daughter! She is only 16 months old and I love her like she is my own kid! His family loves her and my family loves her! But her mom has her around his half sister and even her friends are on probation for drugs! And her aunts bf who she has around all the time is a child molester! Its just stupid! Plus why the hell is she blaming me and child that isn't even born! We didn't do anything!
  • @ourbaby3 he reads me all the text messages and let's me see them...she blames us for everything just because she is still stuck on him!
  • He doesn't need a job to take her to court! Get joint custody where he can gey the girl a few days a week on his time. If court appointed he can call the cops if she refuses to let him take her. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING save texts voicemails emails!! If she's that nuts he can get full custody. Good luck to him on getting a job!
  • Your man needs to take her to court. There is no way she is legally able to make all these restrictions on her own, unless he has been proven the he can not be trusted with his daughter while she is in his custody?
  • @one5one he is supposed to get her for 3 days a week for 3 hours but if something comes up and he can't get her for some reason she says he has to stay at her appartment with her! We don't know how to go about getting full custody...
  • Wow u have alot going on. I dont judge women who get with men that have kids but too much drama comes along with it. Rarely you meet a couple who has step children and they get along with the childs mom or dad. I think your bf should take her to court to have partial custody of his daughter and like that he can have ever on the weekends or something I think she is wrong for trying to use that baby to get him back. Take her ass to court.
  • @mommy2beagain well i have 2 kids from another relationship and my bf puts up with my bd when he is around which is very rarely...he doesnt like him because he is never around for my kids but he doesnt mind to much because he has stepped up as a dad...we want to get full custody but we dont know how to go about getting it :(
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