(HELP ASAP)hubby might join the navy..
I need help me and my hubby just had our baby on 04/25 and now all of a sudden he wants to join the NAVY... I don't want him to join because I know I wouldn't be able to cope with the loneliness and let me tell you this we are both 19 years old.. idk if he feels like with this bad economy he won't be able to get us anywhere in life, but I feel like everything deserves time... and he never ones mentioned that he wanted to join some sort of army until now... so its not like its in his heart to want to do this, but more because of the benefits we will get.
Those of you who have hubbys out there how is it? And how were you able to go through loneliness?
Those of you who have hubbys out there how is it? And how were you able to go through loneliness?
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It takes you being supportive and encouraging and pretty much managing the rest of the household
Hold this against me. I'll see how it goes tonight.
I never thought I could handle being a miilitary girlfriend, let alone becoming a military wife. But when you love someone you'll support them in anything they do, & you'll get through it no matter how tough it can be at times. My husband had mentioned joining the military a couple months into our relationship, & he asked me my opinions & I told him he should consider a different career because I was scared of everything the militray brings. Well, only a couple months later he told me he had signed up & he'd be leaving for bootcamp sometime in the near future. Of course by then I was madly in love with him & told him if that's what he really wanted i'd stick by his side through it all. 2weeks before he was suppossed to leave, I found out I was pregnant. It was tough going through my pregnancy all on my own, but I refuse to look back & give up. We live together & everything is great now! Bootcamp & possible deployment are the toughest parts, but we all get through it!