so , what should i do ? HELP !

iloveyu

so im 21 weeks pregnant , me and my baby daddy is not together but he still comes around and we still have sex and other things yu would do in a relationship , but he has this girl that he claims that shes not his girl but he has told me they had sex before she comes and gets him from work and what not, ! im still in love with him and it hurts so much,and i tell him i fucking hate him that to forget about everything and im changing my appointments, what do i do,?

bummy87

first stop sleeping with him keep everything civil he comes for appts thedn u dont see him

Kells32

Oh geez.....not a good situation that's for sure! But you can make it better. Just try to take control of your emotions and your relationship. The more you lay down the rules he will follow them. When he hits you up for sex.....DON'T DO IT!! Not that you don't want too, but to make him see that he's not in control you are!!! This might take a awhile but its worth it in the end. Oh yeah and if he doesn't come around after you do this ....then at least you will have more confidence in yourself to allow someone who is worth it come into your life:) Good luck and I am soo sorry you have to go thru this

Jaime77

I agree, stop sleeping with him, keep it strictly civil for the baby. You tell him, u want an exclusive relationship or nothing else.

hurstk28

Definitely stop sleeping with him.

TishJ330

I agree with all the ladies, cut out the sex. Its hard to be rational & think clearly when you're being intimate. Plus he's having sex with at least one other person. Think of your health & the baby's health. If you're comfortable with it, allow him to continue the appointments but don't give him the benefit of a relationship with no committment.

iloveyu

thanks everybody, !