losing hope :(

momof4plus1

I am losing hope that i may be pregnant. My af is due on Monday so in 2 days. I feel pregnant with being nauseous, peeing a ton, super tired and being moody. I took a test this morning and it was negative should I just accept that I'm probably not pregnant or is there still hope. My last period was 4-11 and we know when I ovulated.

one5one

Just wait til af is late. Then test. It can take a while b4 a + comes up.

sunshinelove

dont lose hope! try not to care (harder than it sounds i know) the less you (pretend to) care the more relaxed you will be, and everything will take just fine. i tried for 8 months and by months 6 and 7 i was freaking out always mad, getting worried losing hope and it made it even more difficult. month 8 i just gave up tried not to give a damn and BOOM missed a period and 18 weeks down the road im sitting here feelin some nice little butt wrigglin action in my belly lol

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Don't lose hope hun!!! Please! I took a test 2 days before AF with this little girl, BFN, waited until I was 2 days late and BFP!!! Im 36 weeks on monday!

momof4plus1

Thanks ladies trying not to think about it and hope af doesn't come! We would love another baby. Tryin to hope for the best.

padda28

Please don't lose hope. We had mc and were trying for 5 years. We were told year ago we couldn't have a baby. We carried on trying. In Nov last we had long chat and decided we couldn't take anymore and decided to have a few months break from all the pressure of trying and just be together like we used too. Christmas day we concieved and now 21 weeks pregnant! We are living proof that never giving up hope but relaxing and enjoying being together no pressure works. We never expected after all we had been through that the pregnancy test would be positive but her she is. Keep hope but remember relaxing and being stress free is important too. Good luck and I really hope your baby dreams come true x x

BensMama

There's still hope! I got a bfn on a sat and AF was due that Monday. I just accepted that I wasn't pregnant and I was reading too much into my symptoms, and then monday got a BFP! I hope AF stays away!

junebug86

Don't loose hope I took I pregnancy test with this one and it was a bfn and I went to the bathroom later that day and something told me to look in the bathroom trash and there it was sitting on top and it was a bfp and I was still skeptical cuz it was hours later so I went to the dr got a test there and here I am 30 weeks later prego with my lil boy don't loose hope

momof4plus1

Thanks everyone. I do hope af stays away. This would be baby #5 but hubby won't be home for months he will return around end of July so we are hoping this is our month.

lae3

thats why waiting is alway better so you dont stress.. its not good..t wait it out.. wen i got preg i took my test few days early cause i waited a week took another and it was positiv

mrsrocketfield1221

Don't lose hope... some people take longer to see a positive!!! Ohhh I hope u get that bfp this week, I'd Love some good news too!! Let me know!!

sunsh1neonme

Happened too me.. I had a bfn when I tested too early.. after waiting 2 days which seemed like forever it came back as a bfp... I pray you are!!

momof4plus1

@sunsh1neonme and @2ndbutfirst thanks I'm praying that that's the case with me.

momof4plus1

Well AF just showed up and on mothers day. Just told the hubby no January baby he's sad as I am too. We won't be able to try for another baby for months now. Sad

BensMama

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that

sunsh1neonme

Awww, I'm sorry to hear that too... I pray God blesses yu with a baby soon! Keep ur head up mamas!!

mrsrocketfield1221

Ugh... I'm sorry to hear that! I think mine is coming too although I keep hoping/wishing/praying she wont. That's s crappy mother's day joke. :O I hope your day comes soon... although you said no more for some months.

Some days I wanna throw in the towel but with some if the stress we're dealing with I can't let that bad win too!! >:/