Fighting the urge to call BD

Mammacat

So im all out of tears to cry. Im keeping myself together for my daughter and I im due july 9th! My bd and I agreed not to be in a relationship but would work on it and him earn my trust,back n focus on our daughter but we still fought cause he was flirting n talking to his ex then two days ago I called after his ex told me he wanted her n not me he said "yeah get over it I never wanted you I dont love you I just said all that for the sake of our daughter" we dated for 3 years n when he came bsck he said he realized what he lost and that we w ould be together no matter wat...i was sooo happy but he changed on me last second n said shes not his n ignores me completely...idk wat got into him but I keep wanting to text n call. I want him to realize he messed up but hes out going to clubs while I sit here waiting to hear him....think he will ever call? or see his mistake?

mommabee13

Your not a yoyo

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Mammacat

Its sad hes 23 and is still the same I reeeally hope karma gets him. I was so excited to have him by my side during labor and cut the cord

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Roxy

If u want him u have to scare him then hell realize play hes game but worse. dnt let him back in till u know the differnts n him its gona b hard but u have to b strong

BkE913

Honey, you don't need all that stress and drama right now, let alone once baby is born. He is obviously an ass and you deserve someone who isn't going to just kick you to the curb as if you're yesterdays trash like that. I say tell him to kick rocks. Besides, you have the best part of him and that's all that matters if you ask me!

blueberrysmom

Why do you want this man? He sounds truly awful.

Mandielynne

I agree with blueberrysmom..he doesnt sound like a good person at all once u get ur body back n ur baby is depending on u..he may get jealous..i felt alone during my preg with my first cuz lets face it u have a baby inside u which makes it diff to get social n meet another man, but he is sloppy n the fact that u kno he is back with an ex is upsetting. There are good men out there dnt settle for less.

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I promise you are worth more than that..any man that treats you like that is not worth your thoughts.

I know its hard bc of children and the length of the relationship, but sweetie you gotta respect yourself and put your foot down....he only treats you like that bc you allow it. You gotta love yourself before anyone can love you and it doesn't quite seem that you do.

Good luck, and I'm hoping the right man for you comes.

Mammacat

Thank you all

I do love him to death and he was so good to me before but turned into the guy I broke up with six months ago. I thought he really did realize what he did but I feel like a joke now. Its not so much that I want him, that would be amaing for him to clean up n love us n begin a family. I just wat him to realize he lost thst chance and as selfish as it may sound I want him to be the one calling and crying- sitting up at night wishing he didnt do this.

Im not with him because mt baby is more important and she deserves the best as well as I do.