for ladies with men who have children with someone else

brittbabiie

Do you ever feel some way when they talk to their baby moms? Cause I do ... idc that they went together four years ago ... he was still in a relationship with her & it bothers me like crazy

baby_1

I feel u I'm in the same situation and it really sucks sometimes...I love my step daughter like my own...but still...all my hubby can say is don't be jealous...really really?

jamieeex

I'm in! His divorce was final 2 years ago, and she's the one who asked for it.

BabyMcBride8_27

It doesn't really bother me now because I know that part of his life is over, but early in our relationship it did.

BkE913

You shouldn't waste your time and energy being jealous. They have kids together, and unfortunately, it's probably going to be that way for the rest of their lives. I am not in this boat, I am on the other end actually, and it's nice that my son's father and I have a good and civil relationship. I know he has a girlfriend and I am totally cool with that. I would hope she isn't jealous of the fact that we communicate for the sake of our son, it would be a total waste of energy for her to do so because we do not want to be together and are only in contact with each other because of the child we share.

I hope that didn't come across as negative, but I really think it is silly...he is with you and loves you ladies! Keep your heads up and stay positive!!

islandgirl

I do. Im okay with him talkin to his daughter but the ex I can't handle it. I mean she used to call all the time juz so she can talk to him. I was okay with it at first but when she started to ask my bf if they ever gonna get back together I told my bf that's it ur only gona talk to ur daughter don't talk to her anymore. She still continue to do anythin to get him back. But I really don't care cuz im with him and he ain't goin no where.

my3men

My Hubby have two kids and two babymamas, I put my foot down and let it be know that Im bot going to be dealing with the bs, I told them and him. They know I don't play.lol but I'm COO with them both. If they need anything they always call me. And the kids come over almost every other weekend, to play with my son, their brother. I love them like they are my own.

VictoriaB

My husband has 3 children with two different women. He hasn't talked to the first woman in nearly 20 years, but he talks to his ex wife who he has two kids with. They were friends and they accidentally got pregnant so they tried to make it work, but they didn't have anything in common besides the fact that they both liked beer and weed. They still talk, mainly around Christmas and the kid's birthdays, but I'm glad that they're friendly and don't fight. I don't mind them talking and I'm actually hoping I'll get to meet her this summer

Karla_with_a_K

It dont bother me.. I know he loves me and would never go back to her. My daughters dad.and I get along really well and its just good for the kids.

Rissalee7

I guess my bfs the odd one he talks to his ex but only in a text that says we will pick or drop off danny in an hour so I don't bug about it they need to communicate for the sake of danny

Mommy2BeAgain

I dont judge women or men that have kids already and are in different relationships but I just couldnt deal with the drama and headaches that sometimes comes along with it. So I personally would never date someone who already has kids. Thats just me because its very hard for everyone to just get along for the kids sake.

excited_092011

I have 3 beautiful daughters with my ex wife...and my gf and I are expecting our 1st in september :-)........she doesn't get jealous b/c she realizes that my ex and I are divorced for a reason....and the only reason we talk is for our daughters..(and we only talk about our daughters)..I love my gf very much.....and there is nothing between me and my ex but respect for one another :-)

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