I've had threesomes before, and the first one ended with my husband of over 10 years eventually leaving me for the girl we brought into our bed. I was okay with the foreplay aspect & she would watch my hubby & I make love, but once him & her started f*cking, it all went downhill. He became obsessed with her & convinced she was his soulmate...whatever. That was 4 years ago & we are good friends now, & he regrets leaving me for her. But he had his chances & I ain't going back. The best threesome I had was while I was single after my hubby left me, & it was a girl & guy friend I trusted & knew very well. None of us were emotionally attached or involved with each other, besides the friendship bound. That was a positive experience for me. But with my husband, NEVER again. My current bf and I want to get married, but he's not a freak in the bed like me, so he wouldn't want a threesome anyway. With my ex, everything was going smooth until HE had sex with HER. Then for me, I grieved & mourned because it felt like we had violated and lost something sacred & beautiful...and that was the fact that he hadn't had sex with any woman but me for over 10 years. We would have healed & survived & still been married, though, if he hadnt developed an obsession with her afterwards.
I am for it as long as I'm the third party I ain't sharing my man but will share w/ someone else if they ask and it is safe I have never had one but that is one of those things on my to do list
I regret the one I tried with my man...we r still together but it makes me sick to my stomach.to think about it....feelings get hurt even if u think u want.it to happen....
Im not sharing my man with anyone! Our bond together has no room for another person. If it is thrill you are seeking...try having sex in a public place or in a car etc. Spice it up
I would never do that eitheir. I think its so wrong & u night think about what he's thinking when y'all do it. & I do think they think It is the a license to cheat
i couldnt do it. i asked him just to see what he would say and he said no way in hell. i dont want another woman touching what is mine and i know for a fact that he would kill any man if they ever touched me..
In fantasy its hot. But in reality, I'm married and could never do it. I've always wanted to do a 3some with another chick, but bhavent. Its always been 2 guys but that was before I was married.
Its a big no no for me. My man keeps his stuff to himself or to me only. Same goes for me. I dont know but not to offend no one, I personally think that doing that after baby birth or during I can't live up to the "mom" word if I did that to myself. I just don't see it as a higher thing but hey its just fun but not for me. Sorry, not to offend please.
I did once with my xhusband it wasn't too cool I ended up freaking out.He cheated on me all the time and I was so I'm love with him. .... But I did ita few other times when I was single with two friends that were also single and it was a lot of fun. But my boyfriend now I could never let someone else experience him.
I have only found it to lead to problems, and being pregnant you need to protect yourself even more from std's. I wouldn't do it pregnant at all. Just my opinion.
I have done a few 3sums, one with my BF now and we would do another, just have to find the right person, someone you can trust but not to close to. I want 3sums in every way possible. Oh and as crazy as it might sound I love watching my man with another woman its just sexy
@mschop I feel the same way. Watchin him with another female. Hehe gutter minds.
As for trying one u gotta see how jealous you are as a girl. If u could freely do it how far as the sex goes or if It's not all the way. I say try kissing and light things first to test it. Don't jump in to fast
I've been dyin to it.. Lol Before bring prego nd even more now that I'm prego.. But like some ppl said it would have to be wit some1 we both don't kno.. I really dont like drama
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But with my husband, NEVER again. My current bf and I want to get married, but he's not a freak in the bed like me, so he wouldn't want a threesome anyway. With my ex, everything was going smooth until HE had sex with HER. Then for me, I grieved & mourned because it felt like we had violated and lost something sacred & beautiful...and that was the fact that he hadn't had sex with any woman but me for over 10 years. We would have healed & survived & still been married, though, if he hadnt developed an obsession with her afterwards.
I am for it as long as I'm the third party I ain't sharing my man but will share w/ someone else if they ask and it is safe I have never had one but that is one of those things on my to do list
.... But I did ita few other times when I was single with two friends that were also single and it was a lot of fun.
But my boyfriend now I could never let someone else experience him.
But...to each their own so I'm not gonna judge anyone personally...
As for trying one u gotta see how jealous you are as a girl. If u could freely do it how far as the sex goes or if It's not all the way. I say try kissing and light things first to test it. Don't jump in to fast
Before bring prego nd even more now that I'm prego..
But like some ppl said it would have to be wit some1 we both don't kno.. I really dont like drama