Why do I keep taking this?

Diamonds_4

my fiance just told me in a cruel way he never wanted anymore children with me. After he was clicking his heels when he found out I was pregnant. I feel set up now. But I know that every appointment & every u/s I get done I will go or bring the boys.. Just tired of his heckle & jyde acts gonna show him. I will not ask him or include him he has to step on his own or I am gone. Tell me if I am wrong?

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Diamonds_4

Thank you helps

mommyo3soon2b4

I don't think you are wrong. I try to remember that even though I am the one carrying the baby, that my husband is going through some changes too...he has to worry about another mouth to feed, a body to clothe, another college education to provide. But he is still there to support me. And being a jackwagon is not the way to treat the mother of your children. Shame on him!!!

kritten_octoberbby

Thats messed up. Tell him he is gonna be a dad now and he needs to start acting like it. He is gonna have to make just as many sacrifices as you are...

Diamonds_4

@mommyo3soon2b4 & @kritten_octoberbby well he is already a dad of three and financially I take of the 3 I have had he gives when he wants but this time around he really is acting funny. He works over nights & sleeps through the day but today he has been disappearing all day and I was in some serious pain. He won't answer his phone or text. I have made my mind up I am changing my locks. Sorry to vent like that but wow this is a horrible feeling

kritten_octoberbby

@diamonds_4 im really sorry to hear that he doesnt have ypur back through this pregnancy..

GirlsLoveInk

Sounds to as if he's up to no good.... id jus take time apart or ask him wtf his problm is.. thn, get child support on him.. & i hate tht wrd but if he plans on being a pos & can't even help u now thn i dnt trust whn u & the new lil one need help. Screw help., wrks late, sleeps all day, duznt answer phone or txts? Sounds to me like he's trien to get away frm u or he's cheatin.. either way---not worth it, put ur ovaries on the outside & tell tht ass clown to man up or gtfo! Srry.

GirlsLoveInk

Screw **him** NOT screw help. Sry

mommyto1soontob2

Stick it to the man well lil immature boy!! Ugh males

Diamonds_4

Yeah we got into it now he wants me to abort my pregnacy he begging me he said.... He dont want any more kids with me. So I told him thats too late he should of thought of that that night he placed one there since I kept warning him the iud feel out & if you cough on me I am pregnant. But its cool I kicked him out already. So I haven't heard from him but I blocked his number & text messages so I wouldn't know if he even called or texted and he never leaves vm because he believes they are incriminating... @mommyto1soontobe2 @girlsloveink... But I have been stress free since he left I give it til the weekend then he will be knocking but I will be away... Opps forgot to tell him...

garagebandfan

Way to stand up for yourself mama!! I hope you have a huge support system there ready to help you out!!

GirlsLoveInk

Good for u!!! Who does he think he is??? & if tht stupid f*k leaves a vm sumhow, save em!!! Let tht pos fuk up!!! Tht ignorant prick!!! How do u do or say tht?? Horrible!! Id sue the fk outta tht rotten bastard!