happy but also sad...

2boysn1girl

so my "sil" is due only 5 days before me...this is her third pregnancy but first child...im so happy she has made it this far...she has the cerclage (sp?) since she delivered her daughter at 20 weeks...well she went to the doctor today and he told her that he is gonna take the stitch out next monday and he will only let her go a week after that before he induces her if she doesnt go by herself...im so happy for her! i cant wait to meet my little nephew!! but ive been having so many problems with this pregnancy that im just so ready for him to come out!!! but i still have 2 more weeks of bed rest and i cant take it anymore!!! im going crazy!!! im happy for my 'sil' but i cant help feel kinda jealous...

momof22be

Awwww it will be ok mama and congrats to your sil.

mrsrocketfield1221

Stay strong mama, the wait till all be worth it soon enough!!! I'm sure you're going crazy but hang in there! How exciting foe you both... good luck mommies!!!

2boysn1girl

@momof22be thanks...i really am happy for her...she deserves a baby so bad!!! and her and her husband have been trying for so long!! me and my bf werent together when she lost her first at 11 weeks...he was with his bm and she was pregnant also...so it was really hard on her to see someone so undeserving of a baby carry full term and her lose hers...me and my bf started dating while she was pregnant...she lost her daughter right after she found out that she was having a girl...it was really sad...but me and my bf drove up to the hospital to be with her...i cried when i found out i was pregnant cause i didnt want to hurt her...at that point she didnt tell anyone she was pregnant...i was the first person she told!!! and im excited she shared it with me...we are very close...so we have gone threw these pregnancies together...both having little boys..even bought matching outfits and everything...she told me about getting the stitch removed first! before she told anyone else and im happy for her but upset also...my baby is about 2 or 3 inches taller then he should be and im a small person...so he is to big for me...hence the pre term labor and the bed rest...i just really hope after the next 2 weeks of bed rest he will induce

mrsrocketfield1221

*will all LOL

2boysn1girl

@mrsrocketfield1221 thank you...im trying to stay strong but im going insane!! my bf just started a new job today so im now home all alone today is just training but he is gonna be working thirds so no more dinners together

momof22be

I hope so to my son was also tall and I'm ok but not to scare u or anything they induced me on my due date cuz I couldn't take it anymore I ended in a c Sec cuz I wouldn't dialate but just glad to have my boy I hope this one isn't too tall either she is measuring ok for now but I am only 21 weeks aaaahhhhh I'm so scarred but I'm sure u will be ok just hang in there girl oh btw my son was 22 inches and 8.2oz but this kids feet we're rediculous all the babies feet were like 3 inches and his were about 6 so no newborn shoes for him now hes seven and wears.one size below my 11 year old brother so how long is your little one?

2boysn1girl

@momof22be im actually already dilated...1 cm and 50% thinned out last time he checked...but i lost my plug already...i also had my other 2 kids at 37 weeks so he says if i go into labor again at 36 or 37 weeks then he isnt even gonna try and stop it...no one will tell me the exact size but when you have an ultrasound tech look at you and go "hunny i feel sorry fo you" you kinda know your in for it lol his weight is perfect right on track but my doctor says i carry him low naturally even though his feet are in my ribs...ive just been told that im gonna have a tall baby....when they measure his bones its always 2 or 3 weeks ahead of how far along i am...they can never fully measure his spin because they cant see all of it...my last u/s we couldnt see his face because his hands and feet were blocking it and had no place to go...

momof22be

Ohhh poor baby and you too well good luck with having that beautiful baby anytime soon

2boysn1girl

@momof22be i know i feel so sorry for him all the time! poor thing has no where to go or stretch nothing! and thank you...hopefully ill have him soon

kayleigh27

I don't see anything wrong with that. That's great that.you two are close. I've been a bit jealous of my friend who was due a week before me and had her baby the other day. Im excited for her since she lost her first daughter 5 days after she was born due to a congenital abnormality back in 2007. But I can't help but be like 'i want my baby too'

lae3

its natural.. i have a few friends that are a few weeks ahead of me.. and i know when there babies come.. im going to be jealous cause i want mine to come and i seem to go over due every time.. just be patient girl your almost done.. just try not to think about how Bord and over your pregnancy you are..

lae3

oh yeah and once you see your nephew your gonna forget about.. even if only for a lil while..

2boysn1girl

@kayleigh27 im glad it wasnt just me...i felt like it was wrong to be jealous cause i have 2 kids already and she doesnt but i cant help it...i want my son so bad...i look at his nursery and cry

@lae3 i hope once he is here then ill have a little distraction...i try not to think about how bored and over everything i am but my son is starting to move less i guess running out of room so he doesnt play with me as much lol and my house is clean and everything is ready for him and im just sick of looking at the wall...nothing good is ever on tv lol

lae3

i could imagine.. although i didnt have to be on bed rest .. i did go over 10days with both my boys.. i thought i was going to be pregnant forever.. even though i knew it wasnt true.. thats what it felt like.. and i tryed everything i could to speed it along.. that was like my main focus.. the end is the hardest part... ughh

2boysn1girl

@lae3 i couldnt agree more...it seems like time has flew by since i found out but the last few weeks have dragged on...and i think its just because im on bed rest and have nothing to do to keep me busy threw the day...i used to go see my friends all the time and now i cant..