So THAT'S WHY! (I have an awesome doctor)

edited May 2011 in Third Trimester
I am 37 weeks and had an appointment today. I've been wondering (and slightly concerned) why she hasn't yet checked for dilation/effacement yet, and when she still didn't today I asked her why not and when she does this. She said "Well, I don't! Unless you specifically ask me to, or if you are past your due date". When I asked her why this is she said it's because this information really doesn't tell you anything about when you are going to have your baby. She said that some women can walk around with their cervix as long and hard as a roll of lifesavers (not dilated or effaced at all) and their water breaks that night, while other women can be dilated 2 centimeters for 2 weeks and still not go into labor. This totally makes sense to me. One of the girls in my labor class said she was dilated 2 centimeters and effaced such and such percent and that she would probably not be there for the last week. Well sure enough, the next week, she was there and still no baby! My doc said that it can be a pretty uncomfortable procedure and she just doesn't like poking around for no reason, even though a lot of older doctors were trained to start doing this around 34 weeks. This totally makes sense to me, why mess with nature when you don't need to? I say, let nature do it's thing. And furthermore, this makes me wonder if my sister's labor would have been easier had she not been induced. She has an older doctor and he induced her just because she was dilated a couple centimeters. She was in labor for 18 hours, pushed for 3, then had to have a c-section! Maybe her body just wasn't ready! I know I rambled, but I think it's interesting to think about. What do you guys think?

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  • One of the midwives at the place I go said the same thing, although there are so many of them and each do things differently so I dunno. Id be happier them not having to do that if they don't have too
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  • Being checked if ur dialated is so uncomfy look it hurts i hope my doctor doesn't check starting at 34 weeks cuz i might not show up to those apt lol
  • This does make sense. Why put us through that when it doesn't really tell us anything. I can see starting to check at 38-39 weeks though
  • Yay, I'm so glad. Was beginning to think my doctor didn't care much. If she HAD done a check to see if I was dilated and I was, I would just be going crazy from now until I went into labor. Every single little movement I'd be thinking "wait, am I in labor?" Time would go by soooo slow haha.
  • What exactly do they do to see if you're dilated/effaced?
  • I say always trust your doctor......you can always judge their choices after the fact but truth is they usually know what their doing.
  • @ihanafi, I love your doctor too! Stick with that one!
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  • True that, and my cervix has been very sensitive since I've been prego, sex hurts so I can imagine her stickin' her fingers up there can't be comfortable.
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