Oh how I hate skanks.(long vennnnnt!) ***UPDATE***

Megrod88

Soo as some of you may or may not know my fiancee and I have been having problems lately. They escalated and I left for a few days. Since then we've been pretty good. Communicating and listening to each other much better instead of being impulsive and blowing up. Well of course misery loves company so this girl he knows from high school and an old job sends him a txt on the phone we share talking about her and her bf broke up and she wanted to know if he'd come over cuz she needed a shoulder to cry on. My bf told her nicely that he has a lot going on with his new job and wifes pregnancy and that she should find solace elsewhere. So then this bitch was like "Oh well call me back when you're not busy with that." Like it was a 30 min appt or something. I couldn't help but go off. I mean I've gained 40lbs and some 100lb little girls gonna roll up cuz her bf broke up with her? I mean she txtd at 2am. I comend my guy for informing her otherwise but he still defended her saying he knows that's not what she's looking for and she just sees him as a friend but I don't think so. I mean she knew we were having problems and sent him a txt that late asking my guy to come over soon as her bf left her. Am I overreacting ladies to be so mad at this girl?

due71011

I would be sooo pissed! Good luck hun at least your man made it pretty clear where his priorities are.

silverfairy

Your hubby replied with the right thing to her he has no control over what she said back. I would be pissed at her and ask your hubby to let her know its not ok to message him.
Hope you work it out sound like you hubby is really trying and obviously cares for you and your feelings.

mrs_shu

No you're dead on about this skank. And kudos to your man for telling her no. He's a litte delusional to think she wasn't looking for more than his shoulder but its ok cuz men never understand how sneaky we can be

Megrod88

Lol @mrs_shu That's what I told him! I was like trust me, girls can go looking to get it too. She knows we were having problems and she also knows we're trying to work it out. She's looking for a rebound and trying to find it with my fiancee cuz she thinks our relationship is vulnerable.

mrs_shu

@megrod88 hopefully she wont try again and look for easier 'prey'. I'm thinking she wont cuz your man rejected her and she wants some easy ego boosting. 2am please like my cousin always told me that late you're either looking for sex drugs or trouble lol

lae3

no she was trying to do a booty call.. do men think we are stupid.. we are human too.. lol.. i think your man did the right thing by telling her that but he should tell her to loose his number.. he does not need the dramma.. and im sure she dont want know baby momma dramma.. lol.. try not to get too hung up on it though.. i know pregnancy takes a toll on us.. but we are only pregnant for 9months..

Megrod88

Wowwwww. So she called while I was in the waiting room. I answered and she asked to speak with my bf. She asked if it was his phone and I told her we share one. She then asked if he was around or had a number he could be reached at. I told her no, why? She said because her bf dumped her and she just needed someone to help her out with her emotions. I said I don't think my fiancee needs two womens emotions to soothe and then she asked if it was okay if she came to our house and talked to him. WTF! I said no its not but I'll have him call you to see what he thinks. Lol so he called her when I got home and was like "So what do you want to talk about? Would you like me and Megan to come over? You could come here and talk to Megan and I?" She shifted completely and was like ooooh well I don't really know her and he told her surely she didn't have anything to say I couldn't give her girl advice for then she tried to save face and got all flustered. Dumb bitch. We had her on speaker and I was like yeah Logan doesn't get boy problems, you can talk to me. She got off the phone quick.