I've been through the same thing with my bd of my 2 boys. I left him & he started with the threats. So I called around to local lawyers and so on to find out where I stood bc he had more than I did at the time. And depending on the state you live in depends on your answers like I live in SC where the law is if you & the bd weren't married at the time of birth then the bd has no say so. Here I have all the say so & full custody wo going through court. But as i said it differs in some states. My best advise to you sweetie is just call a lawyer & ask questions. It never hurts to ask & no judge is gonna take a child from a good fit mother. He has to prove you unfit first. So I wouldn't worry about it atleast he'd prolly just get visitation but in most cases visitation through court also means child support through court. Hope my advise/experience helps you.. sorry it turned out so long.
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