Moving on. Met someone?

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
So me n the Bd split he chose his ex over me and the baby. Well technically ive been single for 7 months (this whole pregnancy) im not looking to date right now but I met a guy who likes me pregnant or not :) ha we agreed we both didnt want to date at the moment but would "talk" ... I dont see any harm in taking my first steps to move on. At first he was so sweet and always texted and payed attention to my belly too!he played music for her it was cute. He asked what my favorite restaurant was and he told me he was goin to take me there. But we saw a movie at his place a few ddays ago and Im still kinda shy around him and hell end up poking my belly or my face and Idk what to say x_x he holds my hand n scoots close to me buuut after that night which was maybe a week ago he doesnt text as much and usually hell ask to go eat or hang out but after asking what im doing he says hes at his dads and yesterday he apologized for not talking as much cause hes been having a hard time at work. Today he said they cut his pay n was upset :( he said he was at his dads again today...idk if im being played or wat I havent said much cause I dont wanna seem clingy or if I should ask if hes not intetested n get it over with or leave it alone?? Ugh its killing me.

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  • Aww I'm sorry hun that is kind of a sticky place. If i was you I'd just tell him you need to know whats going on if he's still interested or not because you have a baby on the way and don't want to bring different men in and out of her life. That you just want to know where ya'll stand.
  • U know what Im kinda in the same boat as you.... I met my current boyfriend while I was still with my babydaddy at the time a very rockie relationship my boyfriend now was giving me everything my babydaddy wasn't so that's what made me fall for him mean while I'm pregnant and didn't know it as time went on I found out and me and boyfriend both know that baby is not his :-( but he still want to be n our lives. But I still have my doubts and I ask him is he sure if this is something he wants I rather know then be hurt n the long run so I ask questions I hope this helps u out a lil o and yea he does so just ask so u wont be lookin for something he is not thinking about giving you
  • Aww well I asked him where we stand and he told me "you know my standpoint with dating" n I told him I wasnt wanting to date at the moment but didnt want my daugher seein men come in and out of my life and he hasent texted in two days :( oh poo that kinda sucks haha. And! My bd told me he hated me today :/
  • Stay away from men that don't want to date. They never will. Save yourself time. Your bd doesn't hate u he is just being a pussy lol. If anything maybe him being an ass will help u move on. I'm sorry men suck. At least u know u are a strong woman and plus u have something to look forward to and to keep your mind off things.
  • I just read my comment.... I'm so sorry if I came off mean. That was not my intention.
  • To me it sounds like ya'll are dating, even if he doesn't want to call it that. I hope you see that you are a good person and preggo or not men are still intrested, so bd can say he hates you all he wants he is just trying to make you feel low. Show him he doesn't effect you and be the bigger person (I know sometimes easier said then done) and just know if this guy isn't intrested, you will find someone who is :)
  • Im not worried about that guy his loss if he wants to cut me off :) and my bd said that cause he agreed to pay me every payday to buy diapers,etc. And texted me saying he wouldnt pay me till he found out she was his. I said okay u wanted to avoid child support so if u wanna plsy that game we can go to court. He has two warrants n doesnt wanna sit them out so he instantly texted back saying "fine ill pay u but know I hate you and want nothing to do with you" idk if he means it or not but only two weeks ago he was sayin he loved me :/ tak tsk tsk...boys
  • @proudmomma you didnt come off mean :) I appreciate the advice I need multiple outlooks on the situation I get lonely sometimes and these little boys have been confusing me x_x
  • Oh I know. Well I'm here if you ever need to vent
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