Curse men and their power(veeeennt)

rachelmt21

Why the hell is it ok to only have sex when HE wants it and when I want it he turns me down. Its not effin fair. I'm having a c section on Monday and I would think he would want to make love ad much as possible...but no...natta...nothing. Only time he has sex with me is when I get to a point of complaining after two or three weeks. God PLEASE after I hsve this baby...just wipe away all sexual desire I have for three years. Kill my libido...make sex undesirable...because its ganna be his f-ing turn to suffer. I'm ganna turn him down ever time he wants it even if I do want it ill go masturbate so ill be good. I hope he feels like I feel now...rejected and disgusting...its hard enough being pregnant but not feeling the love KILL ME! It sucks cause he's actually a good guy...but this is such a big issue for me and he hasent tried to fix or change it the entire pregnancy. Hopefully my prayers will be answered and he can know how it feels. -.-

nicoleok87

Try telling him how it makes u feel when He rejects u. He probably doesnt even know what he's doing.

Mommyof4girls

Just loose all your baby weight look sexy and turn him down after it's time to have sex again. He needs to know how you feel. I don't understand why he wouldn't want to be with you. My hubby thinks me being pregnant with his baby is hot and doesn't leave me alone...

rachelmt21

I have talked to him numerous amounts of times...that's why it sucks so much more. Because he has done nothing to correct the issue or problem. Just sorry and then I get the pity sex a couple days later.

rachelmt21

God its not fair. We used to have such amazing love making...wild and sexy. But now its just the pity sex I get. It hurts so freaking bad that he dosent care. I don't think ill ever feel sexy again...I just have no confidence now. Its all been rejected and shoved back down my throat.