great....i turned him gay
Okay ladies. Here's the deal I am truely happy for my friend who finally came out and told his family and friends that he is gay. But I feel kinda weird at the same time about the whole deal cause he had never been with anyone sexually before. He always said that he wanted to wait til he got married. We went out one night and was partying we and a bunch of friends and his sister went back to their house and hung out some more. His sister went to bed and the friends left so we were cuddled up watching a movie and one thing led to another and I was his first. Damn the sex was good. Lol. Anyways. We quit hanging out for a while cause it was awkward for both of us. And finally he moved away. We always remained friends on fb and he recently just posted he was in a relationship so I was being nosey and look. I just say the boy has good taste in men cause his bf is HOT. Lol so I msgd him and told him I was happy for him and supported him 100% but I had to know was there any other girls after me. He responded no. I was his first sexual partner and I was the first and last girl he was with. Well damn now I feel bad cause I turned the boy gay. Lol. Its not my fault is it?????
Comments
If it helps, my very first boyfriend when I was a teen turned out to be gay. He actually cheated on me with a guy, after being together for 8 months. I was young, naive, & even though he seemed a little too feminine at times, he always said it was because he never knew his father & had no father figure while growing up. I believed him. I was only 13 going on 14, so we didn't do anything past second base, but I could still tell he enjoyed the kissing & touching. After we broke up, I felt like I must have turned him gay. He never dated another girl. Years later, he told me he was being stupid & selfish & trying to "make himself" be straight by being with me. He did say he cared for me & was sorry he used me like that.
Anyway, your friend was probably just sexually experimenting & had been attracted to men his whole life. You didn't turn him gay, so no worries! I agree with @lil_buggie_3 100%!
Ps. I don't want him to feel bad and think that he used me in any way cause he didn't. I mean I think he was really trying to make himself think he was straight. We have went out a lot to the bar and hung out and always kissed here and there but nothing more til that night. Oh well the main thing is that he is happy and that I stand behind him and support him no matter what. I love him to death.
(Boo that two hot guys are off the market for us ladies, but lucky you, gay guys!
@purple89. He explained that he has always had feelings for other guys. And that's okay. I'm just glad that he is finally okay with who he is and that he shouldn't worry about who is judging him. He is so wonderful.