help i don't know what to do!

laforgemom

Hello everyone, I've never posted on a forum before, but the only people I can talk to are people at work. I can't talk to my dh cause he would just brush it off and say that I'm stressing myself out. My last period was Jan. 13th so my Edd is Oct. 20th. I don't have many symptoms just a feeling of pressure where my uterus is and I've had a couple of random days of spotting. But I also don't have my preperiod symptoms so I don't know what to think. I want to be pregnant so bad, it kills me.

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Don't stress! The more relaxed you are..the more your chances go up. If you stress to much about becoming pregnant you could lose the baby even before you know you are!

purple89

Yea def dont stress our that will make it not come. When is ur period due?

laforgemom

It could come anywhere from Thursday the 10th to Tuesday the 22nd so its really frustrating

purple89

Oh darn. R u irregular? I'm waiting 2 test next week Sat....ugh!

laforgemom

I've had false alarms I the past so I'm trying not to get my hopes up or think about it too much but its hard.

laforgemom

Yeah I think I'm regularly 30-32 days but I had a 40 just a couple of months ago

purple89

Def hard. Cause ur body can trick u if u think about it alot. So nerve racking. Lol

purple89

Oh ok. I'm 28-30 & its always on time.

laforgemom

So dh doesn't want to have kids for another 3 years I've wanted to have one since I was 18. I'm 23 now and would like to have 3-5 by the time I'm 30. But he's not ready and I really don't want to wait 3 years. We had a plan that we would start trying in July but recently I'm pretty sure he changed his mind. People at work are telling me to take things into my own hands and trick him into it. I'm so lost/confused/frustrated.

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laforgemom

I know I just needed to talk about around people that I don't work with its just crazy that everyone is saying stuff.

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laforgemom

Thanks I think this is what I needed

gumbiemommy84

Im 26 and have been with my fiance for 6 years. He was scared of commitment and we waited. I just found out yesterday I'm expecting. He's still scaredm, but it happened without us trying. Give it time and get a test.

laforgemom

I really want to be like if I'm prego, I'm prego. If I'm not, I'm not. But it's one of the hardest things to do. I talked to dh just a bit ago about our plans and as long as our bank account looks like we want it to he's ok with trying in July. But I could still be prego now and he has no idea. I'm too scared to talk to him about it.

Heibes

Things are how they are, but like others have said, do not trick him. Sometimes things have to be compromised in one way or another between two people. My husband and I discussed our stances and timelines on children before we even walked down the aisle. We're here five years after the wedding and pregnant. I wanted to be a year ago, but I conceded and waited. If need be, talk about it some more with your husband. Communication is always the best option.