Somedays, its really depressing, I'm lonely and lost like all my friends. Some I still talk to but I don't ever see or spend time with anybody. how do I get myself to be happy again?
Yes!! Its like even some who have kids are concerned about going out. And kind of leaving you behind.. its lonely and its like you don't have anyone to turn to anymore.
I am going through the same thing. None of my friends have kids. It is very lonely and depressing. At least I have my 14 month old daughter to keep me company during the day.
I have a friend like that. For the past two yrs we were inseperable. She waited in my house for me to get off work, I didn't have kids but I paid for and threw her daughter a slumber party for her 7th bday, and we even shared clothes. Since the day she found out I was prego in Oct she slowly stopped callin n comin round. I hvent seen her in a month either. And I would speak to her about 4x a day. Granted she did tell me in the beginnin that she was jealous cuz she wants another baby, but she's irresponsible. She's 25 nd doesn't take care of the daughter that she does have. It hurts a lot cuz I thought she was my road dog
My two best friends ditched me in October when I got married. They called me immature and blew up my phone with nasty texts. At first I was devastated, why would they try to make me choose between them and the man who wants to marry me? After a while, I came to the conclusion that they were never good friends. When one girls bf stole my iPod, she lied about it to me. The other girl almost had sex with a guy I was dating and when I found out he was cheating on me with another woman, she didn't tell me about the incident between the two of them. Now that I'm pregnant, I'm positive that they really wont want to be friends, but I really don't care anymore. True friends will stick with you no matter what.
That's how it happened when I got engaged, I was told by my best friend whom I got matching tattoos with (hearts and our bdays!) That she didn't want to hang out with me, until I have my baby, and I'm like an 80 yr old Grandma... I'm alone all day and don't have anyone to confide in.. those I trusted are gone. All I have is my husband. What's funny though is she showed up when we got married!! Crazy huh!
I'm dealin with the same issues I just think a bout my lil baby inside me and u all on here thanks to all how far is evryone I got 5 weeks 6 days left due march 23
I'm also in the same boat. My friends don't relate to me, I'm the first to be married and all that, but my husband and I have such fun together I feel like that's the friendship that counts. Especially with our baby coming June 1st! What r u having?
If the friends you have "lost" were true friends in the 1st place they will come around. They are probably worried about how much things will change between you. Try taking a lamaze class or a class with other mommies, you'll make new friends that are on the same page as you. When your friends get prego, they will come running to you for advice.
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I'm alone all day and don't have anyone to confide in.. those I trusted are gone. All I have is my husband.
What's funny though is she showed up when we got married!! Crazy huh!
Thanks for the advice: )