@mamaweezy thanks! I've mentioned the 10day thing million of times to him. But there's always an excuse. So I'm jus over it ill do jus fine w/o him there to c my son b born. If his birth was that important to him he would had tried harder to stay. He has known I was pregnant since I was 3wks he could had been let his detailer his commander nd whoever kno. But nope! But I will b straight thanks for the info! Nd as far as being pregnant and working in the navy, I give it up to y'all cus ur not doin it by choice. I'm sure if u could jus stay home u would. Nd he fails to realize that u ladies r not doin it by choice u have to basically do it. Nd I hate to b compared bcus me nd a pregnant navy woman r two different situations ya kno I have a choice. Nd I've tried over nd over to get a job pregnant these ppl all say jus come back wen ur bby is born..so its not my fault. I just feel its a control thing, he wants to just run everything nd that's impossible. I b telling him u r not obama. Cus that's how his ass acts. Smh.
@mamaweezy i wasnt sayibg cuz shes preg they get more pay but she has on child already so i know u get a certin amount for each child he claims so right now it would be one, but thats how i was told it works but i am a army wife so things might be diff sence they r diff branches
thank god for moms when men are slacking lol. I feel like he is wrong for comparing you to anyone else, no matter how he feels there is a better way for him to express it.
@simplyhappy exactly. Nd he makes it seem like I jus don't want to work at all. I jus can't find a job willing to hire sum1 who is due in 5wks.. he trys to put me down a lot. But it doesn't work yeah it hurts but all its doin is makin me realize he ain't shit nd I can do better. Nd honestly wen I found out I was pregnant I didn't want my bby jus cus we weren't even getting along he threatened me not to kill my bby. So I thought maybe he would act better..I believe he only wanted me to keep my bby to make my sons dad mad cus he's jealous of him.. cus he ain't even been concerned about my bby.. at all... but either way I would had punked out an abortion cus I don't believe in them.. nd I'm in an even more fucked up situation cus he played me to think everything is all good nd I got all my things shipped to guam..nd now he's jus mistreating me threatening me nd more.. so I gotta go there get my stuff but who knows if ill make it back. )=
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