judgemental sisters, any suggestions?
I'm the youngest of 4 kids with 2 older sisters who are driving me crazy abt being pregnant! I had my twins when I was 16 & I almost died having them, & was told I could never get pregnant again because of it. That was almost 10 years ago! Now that I am pregnant again my sisters are tainting this miracle child. Everyone else in the family is incredibly happy, including my brother, but I can't get these two to get off my back.
My oldest sister had her tubes tied about 7 years ago, but now she's trying invetro, & its never took. Everytime she gets it done & it doesn't take, she yells & screams abt how she had an mc. I understand its upsetting, but that's taking it a bit far. Now its her telling me how irresponsible of me to be having another one since its dangerous for me, & then she'll flip to how its not fair that I wasn't even trying but managed to become pregnant, but she can't have anymore.
My other sister has been trying to have a kid for forever with whoever, & has managed to not get pregnant. So I'm getting the samething from her about how its not fair that I am without even trying. I've been really sick with this pregnancy & she's been telling me to suck it up, & just being a pain all around.
My brother tells me to ignore them like I always have, but they are going out of their way to make my life miserable & I really don't need the stress from them on top of everything else. Any suggestions on how to deal with these two? Sorry its so long, just wanted to paint the right pic abt the two of them.
My oldest sister had her tubes tied about 7 years ago, but now she's trying invetro, & its never took. Everytime she gets it done & it doesn't take, she yells & screams abt how she had an mc. I understand its upsetting, but that's taking it a bit far. Now its her telling me how irresponsible of me to be having another one since its dangerous for me, & then she'll flip to how its not fair that I wasn't even trying but managed to become pregnant, but she can't have anymore.
My other sister has been trying to have a kid for forever with whoever, & has managed to not get pregnant. So I'm getting the samething from her about how its not fair that I am without even trying. I've been really sick with this pregnancy & she's been telling me to suck it up, & just being a pain all around.
My brother tells me to ignore them like I always have, but they are going out of their way to make my life miserable & I really don't need the stress from them on top of everything else. Any suggestions on how to deal with these two? Sorry its so long, just wanted to paint the right pic abt the two of them.
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Focus on the positive. I wish you all the best.
@finallypregnant2 I've tried talking, even my parents stepped in & they still won't stop. Its insane, I'm the baby & ill be 26 in abt a week, you would think that they would have grown up by now. I'm a very private person, probably because of them, at least a little, and I rarely talk abt what's going on with me. My oldest (the one that got her tubes tied) is refusing to talk to me right now because apparently I got preggo just to spite her, at least that's the story this week. & the other with pcos, I really hope she doesn't get treatment, as bad as it sounds, because she's not stable at all & can't even take care of herself.