=( I ruined everything... (vent)

aliisvolatpropriisaliisvolatpropriis
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
So me and hubby whent to his moms to "get something". when we left I asked what it was and he wouldnt tell me and said it would only make me mad. So ofcourse I assumed that it was something bad and that led to me thinking that he keeps things from me if he thinks I wont approve. Weve always been completely honest with eachother so obviously this really upset me. He noticed that I was upset and asked what was wrong.. he eventually ended up throwing something across the room and saying "thats what my mom gave me".. ((i realize he could have handled that better)).. It was an engagement ring......... So now I cant stop crying because not only did I spend all day thinking the man I love was keeping secrets from me.. But I also ruined the biggest suprise of my life. This happening after finding out that I havent dilated or effaced at all and my baby will most likely be overdue. I just dont know what to do..

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  • letysfirstletysfirst
    He shouldve gone to his mothers alone, of course u r going to think crazy stuff! Don't worry bout him and concentrate on your baby... Like u said, he couldve handled that diff!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    edited May 2011
    Aweeee ;( you're making me sad! I hope you're not beating yourself up over it tooooo Much. You were just curious and worried. Hopefully you're honey can accept it and try to make things better. Its up to you to make it better too. Apologize in a very sentimental way, cause you really really didn't know. He can't blame you for being curious and you're right about how he handled it. He should've just proposed! Aaahhh. I hope you're not too harsh on yourself, you really didn't know. Stop crying friend, it'll be OK. Its all up in the air right now. Let it subside and I'm sure you two can talk it out.
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  • mammanoucheemammanouchee
    Oh hun, just talk to him about him. Tell him that it was a mistake and you are sorry. I hate it when they say that and we assume something. Just say it was a surprise. Well talk to him, the "something you will be mad about" caught you off guard and you were just a little bit concerned. I hope everything works out.
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    apologize, hun he wont stay mad forever. I don't know what I would do. But my best advice is to apologize adn explain what you were thinking. Good luck.
  • I_anayaI_anaya
    Awh if only there was th rewind button. :l :( he'll come around and apologize obviously he knew yu were gna think somethin wrong if he said yu would get mad.
  • laura536laura536
    I would just apologize. That sucks, but it is what it is. He should have gone alone, lol. Or at least picked up something else so you wouldn't know! At least you can go to bed relieved that he's not a drug dealer or something!
  • aliisvolatpropriisaliisvolatpropriis
    thanks everyone !! Im trying not to be too hard on myself.. Thats just the last thing I was expecting.. I have apologized ((probably over apologized at this point)) and hes handling it better than I am for sure.. Its just been such an emotional day and this topped the cake !! I didnt even know he was planning to do this anytime soon.. And hes really not the best at suprises so I know it was hard for him to keep it quiet for this long.. Ughh.. I just dont know what to do with myself !! I wish there was an off button for these hormones
  • aliisvolatpropriisaliisvolatpropriis
    @laura536 I actually was thinking it was drugs !! Soo irrational and ridiculous
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