Anyone constantly getting hit on while preggo?!

I do not feel flattered at all. I find it so gross wat some men say to pregnant women, they should be ashamed of themselves
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  • Ewwwwww yes! I get it when i was smaller and it wasnt obvious but my belly is there and its gross lol
  • edited May 2011
    Yup. And it is gross. One guy did it in front of his gf. Like are you serious?? And Some of these guys are not even attractive.
  • Omg yes! And I dont feel comfortable at all!! Like really? Do they not see the big bump?! Guys hav no shame!
  • Eww! Guys r so creepy. This guy i havent seen in 3 yrs n have no history with tells me he wishes it was his baby inside of me. I felt so sick i flipped out in him, mind u he has a gf! Wat a creep
  • Omg...I've been hit on but the worst was some old guy sayn "damn I wish I was the daddy" mind u I'm 32wks n my profile pic is recent
  • @letysfirst they see the bump n jus dnt care. This guy outside said "damn someone got it before i did" i cursed him out something serious. How disrespectful
  • @beauty0710 so gross! I knew a girl that got with a guy that wasnt her childs father wen she was like 8 months pregnant. I found that to be kinda gross
  • All the time even on facebook where my pic is with a bump!!!! Some guy asked for naughty pics in panties n my belly like wtf! So many said I'm always sexy n the bump makes me over the top ughhh I'm lovin my bump but not like tht lol
  • An old nail tech guy that was doing my nails weirded me the f*** out too! He was like you can be my queen and I'll be your king and he also said don't blame me for you being pregnant Im just doing your nails. Wtf? Really creeper?!
  • @mommyto1soontob2 omg thats so sick" i woulda freaked out. I would want to attack him. How disrespectful
  • Yes like my bestfriend of 10 years started like rubbing my belly and treating me all weird then later on he texted me when his gf wasn't around and was like damn your so hot now and it just got me so upset
  • @lolasbabynum1 eww wtf! Like wat does he mean?! Thts not even cool. My aunt is preggo n some guy at her job tried to get with her by saying "we can do it and ill be the babys godfather. Ill also bring u presents at ur baby shower". That would have been the day i lost my job for stabbing a guy
  • Yes!!!! I was like is this big baby tummy invisible!
  • I had it happen to me the other night. Guy was really creepy and was moving his eyebrows up and down..like this :> Whats even worse is im 33weeks and my belly is huge! Im all baby...he did it when I was going in the store, and when I came back out.
  • @mommy2be92 wow!! I wouldnt even kno wat to say to him. R u guys still friends?! How could he even feel comfortable enough to do n say that?
  • edited May 2011
    @ExcitedNewMom Some guys just go to far! I had to tell him off because he was going way too far. I was like hell no friggin' perv!
    I heard that guys do that because they see that we are "fertile" but I dont know, I just say theyre weirdos
  • Ewwww @ericak22 sad thing is they dnt even realize that it makes us feel bad about something we arent even doing. Like i feel like i look too sexual but i have on a tee and a track suit!

    @newmommy_navywife no they totally see it. They r jus so disgusting they dnt even care
  • I've been hit on way more since being pregnant than ever before. Maybe it's the "glow"?
  • @lolasbabynum1 yea thats entirely too far! Lmao if someone called me a perv i would feel bad about myself but it seems like it doesnt phase them
  • @ExcitedNewMom I haven't talked too him since but it sucks because he's always been there for me and has never done anythin like this
  • @excitednewmom I know! It makes me feel uncomfortable. Im guessing he didnt care that my bf was walking right beside me and even seen him do it!!
  • @mommy2be92 aww! Honestly i would have stopped speaking to him as well, he could have kept that to himself. It sucks that the relationship got ruined but i dnt blame u for not speaking to him
  • @ericak22 ugh! How disrespectful!
  • I think its sick too... I don't know hoe my husband finds me sexy much less random guys. I asked a couple of guy friends what men see in pregnant people and got answers like...bellys,boobs,and butts being bigger is sexy,and one that shocked me was its a turn on to know that they can "go" and not worry about getting someone pregnant! And there's always the saying that pregnant sex is supposed to be great for both the guy and the pregnant person lol. Guys are pervs.
  • @sdubois yea #1 pregnant sez is overrated lol bcuz a lot of times we arent even in the mood and it isnt enjoyable. #2 eww! Knowing they can go without getting her preggo lol sickos
  • Hmmm, maybe we're getting hit on more often because of a hormonal shift. Instead of just being females, they see us as fertile females and something primal in them knows that babies with us would be healthy and viable. Kind of what @lolasbabynum1 said.

    I'm almost always with my husband when I'm out so nobody actually comes up and says anything to me, but he told me the other day that he constantly sees guys checking me out. My reaction was "Gross! I'm pregnant and my belly's all big! I've got another dude's baby in me!" My hubby just shrugged like "that's how it is".
    Actually, sex is even better now that I'm pregnant :D Maybe that's another thing lol.
  • I know,my husband always complains that he's missing out on too much pregnant sex because I'm always sleepy lol
  • omg yessss and its so awkward and creepy cuz like for one, everyone i know knows im engaged... for two i dont even have sex with my own fiance cuz it freaks me out WHY ON EARTH would i want to go have sex with anyone else?!?!?! i ESP hate it when they say something to the effects of "ohhh you wouldnt mind having sex if it were with me" after i explain to them like the 20 million reasons i dont want to hook up with them and they should stop trying >:| like are you kidding me? no i would not enjoy sex with you or anyone else for that matter you fucking creepoid! GAHH lol good vent xD
  • I don't have a bump yet, my boobs are just ginormous and i have guys come into my work and talk to me just staring at my boobs the whole time. sooo rude!!
  • I got hit on a ton when I was pregnant with my first, but not as much th is time around, even though I think I look better! Lol... I've never had anyone be creepy about it thankfully!... but I do get checked out frequently & even though it weird me out, I try to take it as a compliment since I feel like a whale, hahaha... :)
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