I told him I basically give up. Need advice (long)

Brandysfirst

Im now 30 weeks and he hasnt helped at all. Hes 28 we were together but he cheated and I ended it. Hes in and out doesnt call just txts his sweet talks dont work anymore. I told him I wanted to talk for him to give me a call last night but never did. I was angry and sent him this long txt that I need to stop talking to you completly and I compared him to my father cause they are so alike. I want whats best for my son not a part time father. Should I have not said that? Did I do the right thing? Any advice helps! Xo

vette_devil

I think tough love is the only way to get through to someone who is so wishy-washy. If he's not going to be a good father, there is someone out there who will be. I think you said the right thing as long as you stick to your guns & follow through. I wish you the best of luck.

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Brandysfirst

Thanks mommies. I have to try hard and stick with it. It just sucks when you care about someone and they dont feel the same.

MommaMoon

I feel you. It is hard. Im going through a lot with me bd, he wants nothing to do with the baby and is pushing me away as a friend. Wants me to "get rid of it". So im going to walk, its hard tho. That's 6years down the drain. Good luck to you! And good luck to me lol

Brandysfirst

Yes goodluck. Its just so hard cause im to the point I want my son to never know is father. Im starting to hate him and thats bad but when you see the father driving a bmw760ii makes me want to kick the crap out of him lol.He dont help now why would he when our sons here. Will find a good guy or they'll find us lol.